its a thing i just noted/repETITion/ie repeating patterns/build anger.

think of it as you will/but the 50th time you say /do the same thing
[without..realy wanting to do it]..is graduated [IM presuming/by direct linkage]..repeat//repeat repeat/is great if its your choice

but during on of them /hated
soul draining/repeats..things snap..
and if that brings some advantage..it gets repeat/repeat/becomes habituated/becomes normalised/even expected/stockholms syndrome/but i love her/you caNT HIT GIRLS..it can get messy/but one punch..im g0ne

see ya

You are right there OUG.
One punch and I would be gone too....right after I baked a cake and popped in several crushed laxatives in the batter first!

@Suseonline, Saturday, 28 June 2014 8:28:43 PM

Is that what you would really do? Dump everything leave the kids and decamp? Or are you encouraging dads to walk, to be later labelled 'dead beat dads'?

What would you say the most appropriate and effective response would be for a woman? Then give your honest opinion on how a similar response might work for a man and dad.

Some frank, practical comments wouldn't go astray at this point. That is if you are genuinely concerned and not simply stirring the pot (of batter, it appears).

SURFER-BUOY/QUOTE..<<..What would you say the most appropriate and effective response would be for a woman?>>

the first punch/is often made in anger or pain/when words fail[and deafness sets in]..one cannot reason with a beast/drunk stoned horny or insane/you get the hell out of there

<<..Then give your honest opinion..online/on his facebook/tweeters page/letting his friends 'KNOW'

NEXT I WOULD GO TO THE LOCAL BIKEIE HUT/OR TATTOIST NEST
THEN...HAVE A GUESS..[but its just bravado..by grown up woman/i have never been hit/but yet again what goes THROUGH MY MIND/ONE HIT/THATS IT.

<<..on how a similar response might work for a man and dad.>>
WELL NICE GIRLS DONT GO TO TATOO PARLOURS/SO THEY NED A FORCE/YET NOT A POLICE REVENUE RAISING POLICY..]spo a woman/neds find an old faSHONED THUG..and give the lad a talking to

but rule number one=never go back
this must be clear/you betrayed my trust once
im not prepared to let that happen ever again/your just luky the kids didnt hear..cause that makes things far woprse[you passed on the generational curse

by the same token/if you got a good relationship[and the police state revenue raisers stand at ya gate/tell them to take the whole family/cause if your in a familiy.oNE BROKE/WERE ALL BROKEN[LOCK AWAY THE WHLE FAMILY GROUP.

GOVT policy/BUSTS UP MORE FAMILIES/THAN PUNCHING
but if the head is broken/the whole family clan/needs fixin.
[my visioning..sees them outcast family groups returning to those whO DO THAT SORT OF THING[SO ONE DAY GOVT CAME/PUTTHE BROKEN FAMILY ON A PLANE..

to deepest afrika/or deepest new guni/your families new home
..*WHY*,

,you failed the cIVILITY TEST/have a nice rest
those assets you had/not the proceeds of crime/will follow you/.at a LATER TIME/PROVIDING YOU MADE TREATY FOR THE TRIBES THERE/TO ALLOW YOU TO BUILD A NEW HOME..do your time serving the tribe/in time a revieuw of your progress/helps us to further decide.

out casts/ust one single punch..and your all/cast out

<<..Some frank, practical comments wouldn't go astray at this point.>>

god is generouse/but men arnt god
YET GENEROSITY..is a thing woRTH GETTING to.
if you dont fit in..here..its clear,./the angels/got].gods instructions

the/rest=up/to-u.

uog,
Why go through so much crap when a couple of years of National Service for every permanent resident of this country would establish the right kind of mentality for just about every situation in life.
How many times must it be said that our society is a product of our mentality ? After two years of NS 99% of males/females would become reasonable men/women. That alone will improve our society to no end.
Get our priorities right has to be the main. Have News & Current Affairs programmes in the right order not some brain-dead front row lump of muscle & meat's twisted ankle getting 5 minutes of Air time whilst the reports of cowardly attacks on old people are over before one can blink.
Magistrates should not be allowed to become magistrates unless they've spent at least two years in the Police. Criminal defence Lawyers should require to undergo psychological assessment every 6 months & in really off cases they should be charged with complicity.
Females are very prominent in situations of crime/violence yet they hardly ever get charged. I have had a personal experience where the head of a youth break-in & enter gang was a very nasty & wharped 40+ year old. She only got taken after she went a step too far & seriously assaulted a man. It took Police to over two years to convince the dumb-ar$ed magistrates that she needed to be stopped. A man had to suffer serious injury before the limp-wristed weirdos did the right thing.

Onthebeach "Some frank, practical comments wouldn't go astray at this point. That is if you are genuinely concerned and not simply stirring the pot (of batter, it appears)."

Lol! A small joke from you :)
I think we both know that anything I say to you on this subject is never going to be the right comment is it?
I would just say that aggression in all it's forms is a human condition and I doubt anything we say here is going to change that.