Susie, so much potential for readings things in different ways. I'd picked up on the "all men" and "all women" aspects of your earlier post. That last post puts a different slant on it.

I read that part of Wollie's post as refering to the DV thats not currently being addressed rather than all DV.

Its a messy area in language, defensiveness, stereotypes etc. I doubt that there is any way we can stop all DV, as a society we can work towards getting the message out that violent (and controlling behaviours ) are not acceptable regardless of the gender of the people involved.

For my part and I hope from others posting in a similar vein is that we need to address all DV without the ideological blinkers that currently hinder that. That while society turns a blind eye to any contribution to DV by women the overall rates will be far harder to get down significantly. That blaming the victim is used as an argument killer selectively to avoid addressing some of the issues that contribute to womens exposure to DV rather than as a genuine means to protect the innocent.

R0bert

Attacks on womens appearance and particularly the things about appearance that are the natural results of aging
Robert,
I think you're referring to my post there. Since when is stating evolution an attack ? Get things straight please.
Women aren't violent at all as neither are men. Females on the other hand are very violent & more so than males.
Only yesterday they showed a rather handsome looking criminal who made the world's headlines with a mugshot. Three Australian TV commentators, one woman & two females confirmed on National Tv what some posters here are saying. The women admitted & rightly so that the crim was a "hot" looking young man but because of his criminal character she could not take to him., whereas the two females could barely control their primeveal instinct/urges, criminal character notwitstanding. Can you see where the problem is ?

Female aggression - Reaction to women abusing men in public, actual footage, and the passing cop who admitted the double standards that caused authorities to differ in the treatment of violence by women as opposed to violence where a male was the offending party,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks

#ViolenceIsViolence: Domestic abuse advert Mankind
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3PgH86OyEM

VICTIMHOod..GIVES SOME SOLACE
IF YOU DONT LIKE WHAT YOUR GETTING LEAVE..go
IF YOU STAY/YOUR SETTING THE OTHER UP TO FAIL/sure/they go/to jail
BUT THE PROBLEM/WASNT THEM[YOU STAYED]...when we all said go.

only a fool takes oTHER INSANITY..as random/or due
I COULDNT GVE A STUFF WHO IS more*..aggressive[all aggressION IS WRONG/FULLSTOP]staying after the first punche/earned more/your wish came true

IF YOU GOT-BEAT/and didnt leave
YOU SETtING IT UP..FOR SOME SICK mutual-Dependency
[and these dependencies\are spiritual/go way beyond any grAVE

wow/self fullfilling prophecy
THAT NOT REJECTED OUTSRIGHT/ISNT UNEXPECTED.]

IF SOME ONE hits you..leave..
[TAKING WITH YOU/ONLY THOSE DEPENDONG ON YOU][READ KIDS]..NOT POSSESIONS LEAVE THAT FOR THE COPS,..
but usually its a game they ARE PLAYING..WITH EACH OTHER
[OR JUST PLAYING..YOU...THE THING IS..STAY OUT OF THESE THINGS/these relationships get very messy/AND CANT BE FIXED...TILL the sick people stop loving their sickness...and leave..go just go/you dont want tHE bitter-FRUITS OF THESE SEEDS YOU both./.SOW

bullys and victims/sense each other
your fear is their fuel/your cries-their joy

you think..demonic thoughts
demons come and feed on them..
ITS NOT ROcKET SCIEnce/

SOME LOVE VICTIMHOOD..as it fills their empty life/PLUSputs the blame..on you..not ME..IM completly blamless=red flag..it takes two/AND WORSE WE DONT KNOW WHO..IS PLAYING WHO...or bth of you/playing us.

to/get involved/the sukker is you
they both are jUST PLAYING..YOU...setting you up

GO OR STAY/not my concern/either way/
ignoring the symptom/makes the sickness go away..from you.
things cant get better/till the URGES YOU RAISE IN EACH OTHER GO AWAY,..

BUT I LOVE HIM/HER..NO..Its the bLeatinG/helplessness
YOU LOVE/..YOU just found a way/that takes the blame..off you

poor you
poor u

oh you poor thing
oh no/the beast
its you/now you know..fix it..or go.

have a nice life/im over trying to help
victims/loving their victimhoods,.YOU GET AS YOU INPIRE TO GIVE
THE FIRST TIME YOU STAYED/THEY REALISED YOUR A PLAYER/SO THEY PLAY YOU.YOU PLAY THEM..AND IN THE END..POOR YOU..

BUT..YES..YOU WIN/
that you begged...FOR/BY STAYING

POOR YOU...TWODELOO

The more you think about it, the attitude & actual rather than fictional behavior of women, the more you can see that the attitude to & restrictions placed upon women by the more strict Muslim societies is the only way for a civil society to go.

I call for a tripling of Muslim immigration, the sooner to get this country to a fit place for men to live.

RObert, I agree with your post, but I don't think anyone has ever said women don't contribute to violence?

We have one case going on here in WA right now where it is alleged that a woman killed her husband.

I just hate to see whole threads discussing the evils of women in general.
This one, like the racist ones elsewhere, just go no where...