individual,

"Men want women." - yep, get that.

"Left wing males want other males." - nope, don't get that.

"Women understand that, females don't." - sorry individual, you're too deep for me. I've always been under the impression that women were females. Perhaps you could enlighten us a bit more....

Of course, it's futile to try and define male preferences too rigidly. Like everyone, some men are more spiritual and some are more practical....as my daughter once remarked, if "Here Comes the Sun" had been written by Paul McCartney instead of George Harrison, it would have been called "Here Comes the Bus".

Sums it all up, really.

The Blue Cross,

It's only the passive partner that's gay:-)

My god what a strange homophobic environment I seem to have created.

BTW: I wasn't aware I was right wing. Must be my opposition to the existence of private schools and chaplains, objections to public private partnerships, hatred of The Rodent and being a constant advocate of legalising drugs.

Hang on, maybe I *am* Gay. Shhh.

Jewls,

'That was interesting OUG and thinking about “it” it does take awhile to find your groove as a couple. Who likes what and when and for how long – this whole being partnered thing is quite complicated once you start really thinking about parts and not the sum thereof.'

I found it all rather sad. Sometimes I think people take sex way too seriously. It's supposed to be fun and exciting. I cant relate at all, though I was thrown a bit by the whole pregnancy thing.

Individual,
I'm a left wing male that wants women..
but I'm more attracted to left wing men than right wing females like you.
Watch out TBC!

Houellebecq, sincere apologies, please accept.

There is nothing quite so loathsome as to be misrepresented as an unthinking right winger. I do apologise.

As for the approach by Squeers... I'll be wearing a green carnation in my trench coat. Bondi beach, noon.

I hear Tony will be down there in his budgies... now, I wonder.....

Houel:”... Sometimes I think people take sex way too seriously. It's supposed to be fun and exciting. I cant relate at all, though I was thrown a bit by the whole pregnancy thing.”

I didn’t take it seriously until you said “he is unshockable” – now I’m treating it like a mission. Without introducing animals I’m having a problem thinking up something new. :P

I suppose we don’t really front brain it or analyze it normally and what we do is what we do and what we got comfortable doing.

What pregnancy thing?

Poirot my hubby asked me last night after I replied to Vanna what I would have done if I didn’t find OLO, he was wondering when, where and how that pent up acid humour and what he considers aggressive responses might have eventually emerged. It should please Vanna no end that one man out there is grateful to him for annoying their wife.

He’s particularly nice to me when Graham has banned me for any length of time.

Houel it should be on your What Men Want list... they want their women bleating at someone else as often as possible.

TBC, Squeers, Jewely

Your humour has brightened my date - how about a 4 way?