Grail's second child, a girl, when she was aged seven years, when I first met her, I watched her watching play school after she had came home from school. Play school programs, being basic information for aged two to five year old children. Grail believed her seven year old child watching play school behaviour was fine.
Having re-met Grail's daughter as a grown aged thirty years adult, she was unemployed and separated from her husband, having two children.
I assume her problem is that she is unaware (she can't think to think) of what's going on around her. Exampling, Grail and her daughter invited me for coffee, at Grail's daughter's house. Sitting on the second level front balcony, the house is situated on a busy road. Grail's daughter sitting 3 metres away form me, was talking to me when I was not listening, traffic noise stopping me from being aware she was speaking to me. I looked up to see her talking to me, giving her a strange look, causing her to stop talking showing dissatisfaction, which in the long term did not go well with Grail. Grail's daughter's children entered the balcony, Grail's daughter was asking a question from her children, the children didn't answer her due to I believe failed to hear what she said due to road traffic noise.
The family unit are too polite to each other in fear of being felt as unpleasant, to tell each other what couldn't be heard, and or many other misunderstood beliefs and judgements.

Grail is married to her third husband who he only married her because she become pregnant by him with her fifth child. I was told by a person, he was accusing her of getting pregnant on purpose in order for him to marry her.

Grail's first husband dumped her because Grail spent more time with her mother than with her husband, together, having three children. Grail dumped her second husband because the aged fourteen year old second child daughter believed Grail's second husband was spying on her through the bathroom window while she was in the shower. Grail told me the daughter told Grail to “get rid of him”. Grail didn't bother to tell her second husband why she asked him to leave. Grail and second husband had been on unemployment benefits for six months and he wasn't that keen on going back to work. The four year old second marriage produced one child.

Grail's third marriage produced two children, a total of six children.
Grail had her first child when she was aged nineteen years and her last child aged around thirty eight years.

I also know a man, labeling him Mr X, whose second child (born around 1989) growing into an adult was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, who is now believed to be on a Centrelink pension. Mr X separated from his wife when his second child was aged one year.
In around 1997 Mr X told me he believed his divorced wife and her new husband had their own child, that they were often arguing with each other. Mr X believed his ex wife and her new husband ignored his second child. Which I believe was the cause of her Asperger's Syndrome.

Mr X suffers from diagnosed depression. Mr X in 1990 was told to leave by his ex wife because he was “a big head” she had had enough, myself often seeing him creating narcissistic fun out of his wife's behaviours. Mr X being an extreme narcissist to what I believe is due to a bad school education, starting school unprepared for school, that being his mother worked and his father worked physically exhausting labours. I believe Mr X's childhood immature insecurity after first entering school developed into medicating himself with self-esteem narcissism.

I asked Mr X, being told by Mr X he was trying to be popular. During other children's embarrassing moments, to be seen by other children, being the first to laugh, laughing out loud. Being seen with hand up first to answer teacher questions.

Mr X's divorce lead to mental depression over his wife's rejection, leading to increased alcoholic and pharmacist medication, leading into psychological depression dependence on prescribed anti depression drugs, always wanting stronger medication. Mr X when asked, said, Mr X doesn't want to feel normal, Mr X wants to feel good.
Mr X has been on a Centrelink pension for depression for the last twenty years. Before than had been unemployed since 1992 caused by the Keating “this is the recession we had to have”.

Sending children to school when children are not ready to attend schools to learn academic learning, can have to many children, long term consequences. Giving children a simple aptitude test (recently mentioned on 2016 children first attending school), when children first attend schools, placing not ready for school children in low graded classrooms together, allowing badly behaving children to associate with each other is similar to placing psychological troubled patients in one location to learn bad behaviours from each other.

Social skills being an excuse to send children to school. Children to fit in with each other, to fit in a group, to be excepted by each other, will dumb down conversation to sports intelligence. Words like “cool” express long hours of schooling mental stress, increasing thought traumas to spend time to formulate complex sentences. Children can't talk to each other because they have nothing to say to each other, other than sports, encouraging children to follow sports. Sports being a visual stimulation, medicating classroom depressing environments.

Forcing children not ready to attend school: forcing children to learn basic academic reading, writing and maths skills while teachers are constantly stopping to correct badly behaving children who are becoming bored and mentally stressed, is counter productive, making problems worse. Yet, by leaving children not ready for school with parents that are brain lazy, poor behavioural role models for children to learn from, also doesn't aid a solution to future long term problems. Television cartoons won't aid solutions.

I am sure education departments are aware of the problems, yet somebody has to drive trucks and provide other low skilled task employments.
Family violence, illegal drug use and crime, justify increasing police forces.

The lack of media broadcast information to correct problems shows little effort is being done, and if more effort is done, media programs informing problems are only seen and or heard by people that have few problems.

People in good employment careers have fewer well behaving people to compete with for good employment opportunities for them and their better behaving children.

I have been watching SBS one television PBS Newshour during 2013-2014. At least once a week as a regular weekly story, second half of the program. Produced stories with on the scene video more entertaining images, to get many more people to watch the PBS program. Stories often show new learning techniques to reduce classroom mental stress, to get students to want to learn and or new ideas to learn through Internet sites. US State government financing trail techniques end soon after. Comments that US federal government examination standards require students to attend curriculum subjects examinations. Any appearance: of student better behaviours; free thinking skills; fewer academic learning more hands on trade skills on students that have no academic career intentions, doesn't get financed for any period of time.

What does get forced is if teachers don't show students passing grades, teachers and principles are fired.

Media stories of governments being concerned over school's increasing violence producing a society of drug users and criminals, are little more than talking to the concerned populous that have been made simple by that education I am pointing out.

Education and media stories have people believing in the political process of democracy. That democracy says this is the best government citizens are going to get... put up with it. Budget deficit; budget deficit; budget deficit...

Everything is broken, big bureaucrats systems don't work. Everything is in a mess; it's all disgraceful; need more taxes.

Educating children not to think, that children are scanning memories for known information, being unable to conclude alternative ideas. Citizen audiences will believe media forum arguments that tax payer funding for whatever to fix problems are the solutions.
The real solutions are, more intelligent work forces that doesn't repress individual thought.

The end result is that country populations don't need 95% of a work force to maintain society functions. Paying all workers a working wage. Assumed: not in school aged; eligible for employment and eligible for unemployment benefits, 20% of citizens are placed on lower incomes Centrelink social security payments. Many citizens ending up in jails, consuming fewer resources.
Crime and social security produce service industries: police; prison guards and government Centrelink workers. Schools produce employment for baby sitting school teachers, university teachers, that I attempt to express are traumatising Homo-Sapien advanced thinking behaviours.

Tax payers money is supporting a system to repress human intelligences, allowing a variety of lies that could be argued to be lies. That due to bad education, lies are to be believed as true.
Like religion can promise an afterlife existence to be believed, I am stating similar traumatising techniques, child education is being used to get citizens to believe many behind closed doors ideas that are difficult to argue against, I argue like an afterlife, behind closed doors politicians conversation events doesn't exist. Voted into government politicians are little more than democratic myth public relations propaganda, used to get away with bad happenings done to populations like bad mentally stressful time consuming school education. Many parents don't complain because parents need baby sitters for unruly children, unruliness caused by many hours of continued mentally stressful school pretend education.