Believe me this is true.
Now a bachelor and staying that way,I gloat at some relation ships.
Know , a few blokes who are magnets to women.
Two get the controlling ones in every relation ship.
And between them [2]have had about 9!
I true, asked what do you get out of this constant pain?
No one could tell me.
We laugh and why not, but it can be quite bad if you let it.
Remember a brand new pair of jeans
the ones every one wanted being pegged and taken up.
Any one remember pegged jeans? I found I had a problem when one leg was sewn in green cotton, the other red.

belly/quote..""what do you get..out of this..*constant/pain?""

the 'pain'..isnt constant
it has..[peaks and troughs]

it must-be/linked to scitzophenia
really high/high's..preceed the really low/lows

you know..im sorry..i hurt you
[a high/treat]..then the retreat
then the low/blow low

""Noone could tell me.""

they dare not tell you
they love it..[really love it]
for some reason..some people..*feel so little..
only the pain gets in,..

""We laugh/and why not,""

yep..we all got a choice
some fall/off the mountain..others slide/..off the road

but heck..death..is as near as crossing a road
[or sticking ya tongue..into the power/sock-ette

""but it can be..quite bad
if you let it.""

it's a sickness
they dont know any different
the orders..create a comfort zone

""Remember a brand/new..pair?..of jeans"'

my black/target pipelegs
yep..recall them well

""the ones..every-one
wanted being pegged
and taken up.

Anyone remember pegged jeans?""

no idea ol sport
if the leg was too long..we just cut them to length
and get a frayed cuff

what type of clothes pegs
ya peg..ya peg leg jeans up with
not them solid wood ones..6 inches long...;surely?

""I found..I had a problem
when one leg was sewn..in green cotton,..the other red.""

im more intrested..in why you used
two different colour threads...

[or did your mum/wife...lover or other
do it for you..]

im sure who ever dun it wasnt in a union
[did they get paid..it might have been a go slow...
or between paying orders][or other unpaid job/lot bonus's

really its quite fashonable..[personaly
i wouldnt have noticed]..

just cuffed..the do/gooder arround a bit
or locked them..in a private hell..for life

i digress..!

/

a dire-gression

how dare you..[grrr]
everyone is looking at us..[...ummmmm]

what put that thinking..into your mind..[uggg]
wait till you get home..[kssssssh

no tv for 4 days.;.[per leg]

i wanted blue thread..with yellow trim...
in a zigzag..[not too wide]

but with enough zig
so..i dont need zag..you..ever again

but i force myself...
cause i know how much..you love it

i know..you luv me
you say it..all the time
even when you hit me..again and again

is it love of hurt..ing others
that your feeling?

you just love hitting/complaining
not ex-plaining

I have seen it for many years now, the old 'I'll just wait for the misses mate' , I don't want to buy the wrong thing.

Much of this in my view stems from broken families, whereby 99% of the boys from these families are raised by their mother and lack male input and or male role modeling.

Ogenerally, only a father can instill the leadership qualities that strong fathers have.

The sign of a strong father is not one who is abusive, but rather one who is turned to for protection in times of need.

So off these young guys go, having been controlled their whole lives and find it easier to replace their mothers with a strong partner.

Unfortunately, we no longer have a society where men are men, as more and more of them are becoming to sensitive amd loosing their male strengths.

As I often say, harden up!

rehctub,

Can you define "...a society where men are men..."

I don't necessarily see it as sign of our permissive society. I think some men have always acquiesced to their wife's or partner's wishes...some guys are just like that.

Wasn't it Jung who said that all men project their mothers on to their wives?

And almost all the men that I've ever known have "not" enjoyed "shopping". They seem to race to get everything completed in the shortest possible time....which probably means that men are diabolically clever in designing shopping apparatus for the women to use - and it all keeps consumer society (as we know it) afloat.

Belly - "pegging" I presume is pinning...that's what I was doing, taking up and hemming the legs of trousers.

Yabby - I once got a spade for my birthday...lovely yellow-handled job. I've still got it.

Yabby,

I expect you'll make note of the fact I gave a description of the decor of my spade handle....apparently that's because I'm a woman : )

Belly (my sweet)...I suspect there may be a dead mouse in the back of the washing machine....and that tap in the bathroom is STILL dripping.

(NB - note application of endearing rhetoric on henpecked victim. Although applied sparingly, it has a mysterious capacity to move male in the direction of toolbox)