hullo houlio

have ya seen
the brazilian/tassie map...in south aussie

""They want to be!""

i agree

""if they really wanted
to do something about it they would.""

i agree

""standout reasons
for men wanting to be under the thumb...

a)The power of the pussy.
(aka The Bermuda Traingle - think map of Tassie)""

wow
is that a tripple entandre'?

[quote]..''b) The replacement mother.[/quote]

or 'get a mum..to 'get' at her kids

quote..'"c) Death by a thousand cuts.
ie nagging (Anything for a quiet life he says)""..

yes i guess some just really love to fight
[either to fight and make up]
or just cause its a power play

each feeding of
the others negative energy?

quote]..d)An excuse he can tell his mates
rather than the truth that he finds them boring""

ok..but that could only bve a weak guy
couldnt he just avoid them..hide behind the couch when they visit
[heck who needs mates sharing jokes with ya mate]...

asking about her..getting titilated by her latest escapade
[go on comfort the widow anhow..even those..*only dead inside..

[lets face it
fridgedity...follows a lot of cold]

""and doesn't really like pubs any more.""

i never did

but hey i think you got me with

E}.. ie He's getting old,
and has lost the will

dont drink..and dont need the blue pill

to live,
and wants to sit in his undies and scratch his bum

and spend less on beer
and have a more comfy seat.""

and die in his own bed
then found one day..when someone cares to visit

""Nagging has been shown to be..extremely effective
if sustained over a long period of time.""

but silence works too
not washing helps

eat lots of garlic

""The point is though,..the guy/under the thumb
should have put his foot down years ago.""

but the kids needed a father

""In fact,..probably his misses..would jump his bones if he did,""

doudt it
yes i know..get them frightend works
but its a cheap trick..[if ya need tricks...it isnt love

""she's been desperately waiting
for him to show some back bone for years!""
all the other guys didnt need to rape her either
she loves the fear?[thats sick]

"A new level of respect would be found,
and they'd be shagging like nobody's business.""

like bonobo's comes to mind

""So, I unapologetically
(As Always)..Blame the Victim!""

i dont seek to castr blame
only find solutions

[to wit somebody...too luv
who loves herself as much as she loves me]
and loves to love me..not what she thinks i may be..but simply what i am

*No woman I know would utter that sentence*

Dear Lexi, ah you have friends just like you.
Its common. Meantime out in the real marriage
world, pussy power is alive and well. Just ask
Bettina Arnt, she's a specialist at this stuff.

If that doesen't work, they can take his money.

All very common in marriage world. Luckily I
dodged the controlling types when I could have
married them, so some other poor buggers have done
hard labour ever since :)

Proviso - if the discussion is about controlling women then let all my comments carry the assumption that controlling men do exist and it's not all women. I don't want to have to spend the whole thread adding proviso's to every comment that could possibly be taken out of context by omission to suggest otherwise.

Lexi I don't know how many women would put it in those terms, some might just decide that they can't be intimate when they are not feeling good about the relationship and if he does something they don't want then they can not feel good about the relationship for quite a while. Also a very common experience for men to find that their partners interest in sex dries right up when kid's arrive and stays that way for a long time. Have a look for a book called "365 nights" sometime for one perspective on it.

Overall I think that there is much about expectations, giving and responsibility in relationships that's not right for a lot of people.
Some see relationships as something to take from rather than give to. Some demand without giving, want the relationship to meet their needs with little or no concern for their partners.

R0bert

I admit it is a light-hearted subject but when you have to deal with such control obsessed females in the public service the hilarity ceases.

Robert,

Re: your comment ... R0bert, Wednesday, 15 February 2012 7:26:31 AM

"...it has far more to do with personality than gender."

You mean, like White Ribbon Day?... *end sarcasm*

Men - apparently - need to get their own day, coz we aren't welcome there.

*end jilted dig*