Please Julie never think me, this old grumble guts sees any thing wrong in you or your posts.
AS please hear me, you must stop talking about this issue as step one, never ever send those e mails again.
And think about what you write, see what others say, not what you think they say.
You can take no other path.
The pied piper maybe you should get a bit tipsy and forget the whole thing, no not forgive , but do not let another's problems get you down.
It is hard and I never will know why, for a woman and man to be just mates, it should be the most natural thing in the world.
But to be haunted by some one is not acceptable for any sex.
Faking it, yes much more complex than I thought on starting the thread, even I am forced to understand I fake it here in OLO.
Some clearly have issues that shout stay away to me, yet I too often attempt to involve them in conversations.
I am well aware its time wasting and will never work.

RObert that is interesting, I had not noted the two different sign ins.
It was AN not AS who made the claim I wanted to go to meet him in Adelaide.
At best a mistake I certainly never ever said it.
You RObert continue to post wise and fair minded comment.
I have a feeling we all need to consider a few posters balance and judgement.
Communications in all its forms is two way, the art of seeing hearing and understanding what the other side is saying is beyond some.
While many will differ with my view it must be no easy task being a moderator.
But I can only hope, well best leave it unsaid but am upset at any one talking to some ones wife like that.
Maybe I am growing, just a year ago I would have expressed my views in stronger terms.

Belly baby no one thinks of you as a grumble guts. Well maybe a little when talking about the ALP thing recently and you weren’t very happy with them.

This issue – just a quick bleat Belly – OUG may have spotted something I didn’t. I call people “baby” and “hon” etc and my emails I often end with a XOX Julie. I am friendly and I am truly interested in people and how they feel, how they are, what is going on with them. I don't get out much, I don't meet many people and I genuinely enjoy people

But I swear on all children that not once did I or would I ever intentionally imply I was interested in a different life than I have. I wouldn’t mess with any person in that way, it would be the worst form of fakery I could imagine; toying with anyone’s life and emotions. And me being me I spent ages thinking “was this my fault” before deciding no damn it and then the confusion turned to being annoyed and then when it got into more explicit content I got angry.

I was going to not say anything in public and then look, I snapped in a very edited way.

Thank gawd for Houel, he said the perfect thing at the perfect time and made me laugh. But R0bert and you and the girls really helped because no matter what, the situation is shameful and that was what I was feeling.

And Belly, right now – I’m going to follow your advice so best everyone ignore any posts from me over the next few hours.

The Pied Piper faking being a member of the opposite sex may be overcome thus:

http://www.humanrights.gov.au/about/media/media_releases/2009/80_09.html
and
http://www.humanrights.gov.au/social_justice/repbody/report2009/community_guide.pdf

Dear Piper,

You did nothing wrong.

I agree completely with what Robert said.
Unfortunately, you got caught in a situation
over which you had no control. You can't be
held accountable for some disturbed person's
behaviour. And the behaviour was deplorable.

Stay strong - and know that you have our support!

Hopefully all this will pass quickly -
and will never happen again.

Antonios, I'm disappointed in you.

I think you should pull your head in and leave her alone, for both your sakes.