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The Deconstruction of Wedding Vows
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Your hubbie must be quite a guy.
You guys are still together!
Marriage of course isn't compulsory, and it's
likely to occur less frequently (maybe) in the
future, but it's a fair bet people will continue
to fall in love and try to find harmony together
just as they always have.
Here's something I found in a magazine:
"Lust and attraction don't often last. But to me
that sense of contentment, of sharing, of
oneness with another human being - as you walk
together holding hands, when you sit next to
each other reading/watching TV in the evening,
as you laugh simultaneously at a movie or stroll
through a park or on the beach - your souls are
merged. All the world's your paradise.
Beautiful isn't it? Or does it make you cringe?
I'm aware of a certain self-consciousness that
arises when I think of admitting to that kind of
love. I don't want to be accused of being smug or
boasting, and I certainly don't want to
pretend there hasn't been considerable conflict
and pain along the way. But I do want to be
authentic, so I'm making a stand. I know that
kind of love, and there's not enough of it in
the world."
"When we experience that kind of love we know how
nourishing it is and it exists alongside a whole
range of emotions --- even flashes of acute rage.
It can take many years to achieve, decades even -
and it seems to flow parallel to the journey to
self-love."
I've got to stop reading those mags.
They depress the heck out of me!