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So, pro-spanking parents aren’t Nazis? : Comments
By Ben-Peter Terpstra, published 13/4/2011The evidence supports corporal punishment as a viable and valuable method of discipline.
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Yet the judge apparently found Freudenthal's "disturbing actions" to be as legitimate as the carpark scenario you describe. What do you think about that?
What's more, divine_msn "doubts the sexual connotation" and tries to justify Freudenthal's actions. Jewely agrees, chalking it up to "old school" ignorance of alternative methods (despite having an advanced degree in psychology).
DiPalma from the DA's report tried to similarly play the "discipline card" while on trial, portraying the victim as an ill-behaved brat. Though it didn't work in his case, it's worked remarkably well for others. One of spanking's drawbacks is that it blurs boundaries in a way that makes it easier for predators to operate.
We don't know from the DA's report whether the boy had been spanked at home. But we do know that DiPalma, his teacher, told him that he was behaving badly and therefore he was going to get a spanking. What is an 8-year-old supposed to think in that situation?
Depending how frequently or severely they are punished that way at home, many kids might figure they deserved the spanking or at least that DiPalma was entitled to do it as an adult in charge. (And in fact, teachers at some schools *are* allowed to spank students.) They might imagine their parents would approve and that maybe they'd be in even more trouble if their parents found out about it.
By contrast, children who've never been punished this way and aren't so conditioned to see spanking as a normal adult-child interaction will be appalled by the very idea of their teacher doing this to them. The "you've been naughty" ploy doesn't have the same currency.