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Did my older brother turn me gay?
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Rainer, your point about “homophobia” being at the root of why this question even arises outside of arcane scientific circles is spot on. I used quote marks because the term itself is controversial, but it’s the best word I can find to describe what is to me a strange and deeply irrational human emotion. Perhaps one day evolutionary psychology will make some sense of this, too.
Strongly held but rationally unjustifiable beliefs are part of what makes us human. Sometimes they are charming and harmless, but sometimes they can be very harmful.
Obviously, I have a personal interest in challenging a particular pervasive, irrational belief about human sexuality (and believe me, it is only one of many). What is sometimes frustrating is the very irrationality of it. It’s very difficult to get some people to move beyond the mental framework that human variation is a result of something “going wrong”. An example of this thinking is the apparently unshakeable idea that homosexuality is a kind of sexually transmissible disease that you pick up from someone who is already “infected”. To me the idea that sexual abuse can reverse the polarity of sexual orientation is patently absurd, and goes completely against the experience of people who have suffered such abuse. I suspect that such a belief is, at the deepest levels of the human psyche, one of the root causes of homophobia.
As w pointed out, the existence of homosexuality has been an apparent paradox in evolutionary models. However, the birth order study by Bogaert (see http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?articleID=0005A6D3-7ADC-14A0-B6C483414B7F4945) goes some way to solving that paradox.
I think what biology and particularly evolutionary psychology teaches us is that diversity is not just a sooky left wing ideal – it is the natural order of things. And understanding our own nature is hugely liberating – for everyone.