How bizarre, I had a thread rejected a while ago asking about under age parents receiving financial support from the government being technically profit for crime but this ISN'T 'too out there' for the site...?.

Seriously Graham, WTF?. Anyway, sorry guys.

Congrats on sharing about your bisexuality though. HArd thing to do, for some. I lived with a lesbian for awhile - AWESOME girl - but she had REAL trouble with her family and she wound up getting involved with a bisexual as well. She had troubles with it.

Hope you don't mind me 'rail roading' the thread but what would be more of an enlightening and interesting thread would be how your partners and family go with it. Do your partners - if you have one, or two - know about your bisexuality, or is it something that hasn't been addressed?.

If you all don't mind discussing it of course. I'm hetero, so so far the issue hasn't arisen - lol so to speak - for me

I rename this thread; 20 - 1 better topics than the original topic.

Or maybe unproductive Fridays at work. Great to be making full use of the new posting limits. Oh how Graham will be proud.

Good one StG.

But, you can be hetero and enjoy group sex. Maybe it depends on your definition. My partner and I have had a few experiences with friends joining us (yes runner I know I'm going to hell) but we're still both hetero. Just generous experimental heterosexual people:-)

These things just happen sometimes, and it's more about the adventure and going with the moment than labels and defining your sexuality.

Houllie

You don't have to play if you don't want to.

StG

What part of light-hearted fun don't you get?

Maybe this will help.

A few years ago I saw the movie Bull Durham on TV. There was a scene in which the character played by Tim Robbins turned to Susan Sarandon's character with an expression that was so beautiful and so sexy that even my boyfriend thought Tim looked hot.

You don't have to be gay or even bi-sexual to feel a little bit moved by someone from your own sex. But you do need not to carry a load of sexual baggage around with you. Maybe you can let some go (anonymously) right now.

At least Graham Young didn't feel threatened by this topic.

"These things just happen sometimes, and it's more about the adventure and going with the moment than labels and defining your sexuality."

lol I'm sure Freud would disagree. ;o)

Hey, as long as it's genuinely emotionally and physically consensual from all party's - which I'm sure it is - then more power to you. Can't see you going to hell for having some fun in the sack - so to speak. Mate, gonna have a million one liners for this one. lol

Severin,

I'm sorry I took the title literally. Didn't realise you meant something else by "Who would you turn gay for?" and content from the initial post as other than 'I am bisexual'.

Didn't mean to insult you about your sexuality. I'm fine with my sexuality and my missus and I have a healthy sex life thanks. No baggage here, other than regrets on "meating" that neighbour that time years ago - way before my current partner.....well, maybe not so much regret...no definitely no regret. She was smoking hot.

StG

No offence taken. I just didn't want a discussion on gay politics, just a bit of fun. Now you've got me really curious about your neighbour...

;-)