Pericles

I have found two men kissing very erotic - if I found the men attractive, ditto two women.

Nor is it a "chick thing". I guess we mix in different social circles but I have plenty of straight male friends who have no trouble identifying men they think are attractive. Doesn't mean they want to engage tongue tango - but they can get the sexuality.

Sexuality is not a black and white, an either/or thing. A straight male friend got blow-job from a male while on holiday in Europe - just to see what it was like. Plenty of "straight" men in men-only situations such as prison, at sea, etc aren't so picky when the choice is all male.

I can understand why men find two chicks getting it on attractive - but what I find hilarious is that men think the "chicks" would be interested in the male voyeur. Like a spare dick at a wedding - not much use for anyone.

No I don't watch gay male porn, but then I don't watch any porn of any hue. That's just me. Not into porn. But many others are and I'm betting there's some straight males who would find gay male porn arousing, maybe not you and that's cool.

This was just a bit of fun and kudos to all who joined in.

And raspberries to those who didn't.

'what I find hilarious is that men think the "chicks" would be interested in the male voyeur. Like a spare dick at a wedding - not much use for anyone.'

Is that what men think? That is funny. You learn something every day.

Just like the day I learnt that all men explicitly decide whether each and every new women they encounter is f*ckable or not. You really should teach us more about men Fractelle. It's fascinating.

One would think the average voyeur would be interested in the viewing, with no desire for reciprocal interest.

I'll accept the raspberry, Severin, with good grace.

>>This was just a bit of fun and kudos to all who joined in. And raspberries to those who didn't.<<

But just one tiny point. You didn't actually answer the question.

"Does the idea of being in the same room as two blokes making the beast with two backs turn you on?... two guys? Humping? Each other?"

You replied with

>>Pericles I have found two men kissing very erotic<<

Hmmm.

I'm with you Pericles! I find the sight of two guys getting it on together on screen as a complete turnoff for me... good looking or not.

I did like watching 'Queer As Folk' on TV though. The main gay male character was just so attractive I couldn't turn it off.
However, I will admit to covering my eyes during the gay love scenes!

I am also uncomfortable when two women are on together on screen as well, although I know men seem to like that!
Go figure!

Pericles

Like many women, I don't find the gynaecological type porn all that stimulating irrespective of the sex. An anus is an anus, is an anus.

I don't mind seeing two guys kissing and caressing each other. Thinking "Queer as folk", "Brokeback Mountain", most recently "A Single Man" - Colin Firth!?! What's not to like?

Houellie

Incorrigible as always. Are you saying you wouldn't want to join in with two chicks?

Have you never checked out a woman and thought "I'd do her"? Or, conversely, thought "Wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole"?

If you can honestly answer 'no' to any question - what a strange man you are.

Foxy

If you are still reading this thread, I haven't read any Jeanette Winterson books, although I have heard of her and now you have stirred my interest... am going to the library this week, will let you know if I read her.

Finally, thank you again to those joined into the lighthearted spirit of this thread - some of you have surprised and pleased me a lot. I love learning more about people. Forums tend to show only a narrow perspective of people.

Cheers m'dears

Fractelle,

'Are you saying you wouldn't want to join in with two chicks?'
No. I'm saying I wouldn't think the two chicks would necessarily be interested. You seem to have a real problem with simple comprehension.

'Have you never checked out a woman and thought "I'd do her"?'
No. Well, I often check out women, but I don't think 'I'd do her'. I would naturally be happy to engage in sex with the people I'm attracted to if I wasn't committed to my current relationship, but I don't routinely assess whether I would have sex or not with every woman I meet.

'Or, conversely, thought "Wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole"?'
Never. If I'm not attracted to someone, the thought of sex with them doesn't enter my mind.