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Violence against women - the courage of a father : Comments
By Waleed Aly, published 25/11/2005Waleed Aly argues violence against women is a problem for men also.
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I knew you'd take that tack. I just knew you would. I knew it because I spend some time in virtual combat with those who espouse the very same rhetoric.
Blaming men for female circumcision in African/Asian communities is exactly like blaming men in Western society for the behaviours of modern women. Things like wearing makeup (a very bizarre activity performed by multiple millions of women costing billions of dollars that could be better spent on more humane endeavours, like campaigning to stop female genital mutilation - FGM, that men don't want), owning twenty, thirty pairs of shoes, wearing very expensive sexually explicit clothing, buying millions of magazines about the same, shaving their body hair and getting painful genital waxing and body mutilations such as tattoos, body piercing and scars, as well as highly expensive body modifications and breast implants through plastic surgery.
The fact is that modern Western women do these tragic things to themselves, not to please or suit Western men, we don't care, but to please and suit their own vanity and other women!
Of course it could be argued that this was women being sucked into men's subjugation, but for crikey's sake, get real. Women do these things through personal fears and cultural impositions created by other women - the same as FGM. It has absolutely nothing to do with men and I strongly and respectfully suggest that any spin to accuse men for this behaviour is fanciful and mendacious.