Hey wakings, the news coverage on botoxia is just as shallow and as bland as the paris coverage, because in reality she is as shallow and as bland as paris. And you'll never guess what the latest news on the gossip wires is? you'll never quess... Is she Pregnant? Seems urban is talking it up again, only this time he says it may be next year. Watch it urban, by next year you may be dumped back in Nashville, where it seems he is prohibited from going back to right now. Botoxia is too busy right now in Australia, and so she had urban report in, and has him performing in her aussie PR road show.

I have recently read a book called 'But He Says He Loves Me' by Dina L.McMillan. It is all about manipulative relationships and how to avoid being trapped.

Lets see the similarities in this so called fairy tale marriage of NK and KU and the quotes in the book:

The abuser says: "I am looking for a relationship that will last a lifetime". KU lyrics from a song dedicated to NK ....we got a Once In a Lifetime Love ....."

Indicators that the abuser is using the 'push-pull' strategy:

"Does he flatter you to an excess sometimes? Does he go on about how fantastic you are and how rare you are, even if you know you have not done anything exceptional?"

KU has an obssession with telling his concert audiences how wonderful his wife is. What does NK do, acts all coy and bashful, like a teenager. It is quite evident her self-esteem is low and she just loves being glorified at anytime, especially in the public arena so she can be in the papers. KU is using this weakness to his advantage. This is not a healthy relationship at all.

NK was once quoted as saying, around the time of his rehab "you don't choose the people you fall in love with" well you are playing right into his hands.

This is one sick fairytale marriage! I think they both got married for the wrong reasons, they are both narcisstic and this is a great model of a marriage for 'what not to do'.

yeah wakings, that book does describe that marriage to a tee. All that you mention. I once commented here of a quote botoxic made in a magazine interview a few years ago, stating that her idea of an ideal man was the Judd nelson character in the movie The Breakfast Club, you know the high school
stoner/ criminal/ malcontent. The reason she was so devastated when cruise dumped her is she was fortunate to have hooked up with cruise, right, the BMOC, early on, I think she was in her early 20s. And that lasted for 10 yrs. so when she was dumped by him, she still had an adolescent and immature reaction to relationships. She always became flustered when asked about her personal relationships, denied everytime if she was linked to anyone, was reluctant to talk about it, and when she did she only spoke of it in a childish fairly tale manner, you know, someday my prince charming will show up and we can live happily ever after in our castle. Well, and so now, she's found her stoner/addict, dysfuntional alcholholic she has to drive to rehab, and has to keep from falling off the wagon... or more precisly, her traveling PR bandwagon.

KU was being interviewd on radio here the other day. He had his mobile on him and said that if it rang, it would be her (she was about to board a plane)and he would have to stop the interview briefly to speak to her. Everyone agreed that could be done. Sure enough the mobile rang and he walked away from the radio jock to have his conversation with his princess. But the naughty radio jock didn't turn the mike off and the entire conversation, though faint, was recorded.KU just spent the whole time assuring her that she would be okay and that he loved her and was using stupid lovey dovey words that were ridiculous. It was as if she was too scared to board the plane without the big bombardment of a 'love brief' from him first.Interesting for all the thousands of listeners waiting for him to return to the business at hand.

The latest is that NK and HJ had a VERY private party for the cast and crew of 'Australia'. Is it me or are they putting things in the papers just for the hell of it. Do we need to know about their little shin dig? They are obviously worried the movie won't be that good if we have to hear every little detail about what they are upto. Did we hear this much crap about Moulin Rouge? I just don't recall.

The true blue 'real' Australian actors on this film will balk at all the rubbish and trivia. They won't be one scrap impressed by Botaxia. Yet Botaxia will be intimidated by them. They were the actors who were highly respected in the Australian film industry when she was just starting out with stars in her eyes and looking up to them as if they were gods.