The National Forum   Donate   Your Account   On Line Opinion   Forum   Blogs   Polling   About   
The Forum - On Line Opinion's article discussion area



Syndicate
RSS/XML


RSS 2.0

Main Articles General

Sign In      Register

The Forum > Article Comments > Meryl and her streeple > Comments

Meryl and her streeple : Comments

By Louis O'Neill, published 16/1/2017

Why does she feel the need to turn the Golden Globes into her own political monologue?

  1. Pages:
  2. 1
  3. 2
  4. 3
  5. ...
  6. 8
  7. 9
  8. 10
  9. Page 11
  10. 12
  11. 13
  12. 14
  13. ...
  14. 23
  15. 24
  16. 25
  17. All
Killarney:

As Foxy deduced the best way to deal with bullies is to remain silent and ignore them. When you ignore them it takes away their power. If they get no reaction then they become totally ineffective. Their next option is either to become violent or to slink away in disgrace. Most bullies choose the later. If they choose violence then we have laws to make sure that they are punished for their violence. We do not need those laws to deal with bullying because we are all capable of dealing with it ourselves. Everyone can maintain silence.

When people assume that Trump’s bullying can hurt it is because they automatically presume that his victims are powerless. It assumes that they need help. This is why bringing attention to Trump’s bullying is patronising. He may be the biggest bully in the world but even he can be ignored and rendered ineffective as a bully.
Posted by phanto, Friday, 20 January 2017 4:37:44 PM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
Not always, phanto.

<<When you ignore [bullies] it takes away their power. If they get no reaction then they become totally ineffective.>>

This depends on two things:

1. whether there are any onlookers, and;
2. how much power and/or influence the bully has over those looking on.

<<[Trump] may be the biggest bully in the world but even he can be ignored and rendered ineffective as a bully.>>

Yeah, provided every other person on the planet ignored him. Fat chance of that happening, though.
Posted by AJ Philips, Friday, 20 January 2017 5:28:24 PM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
Phanto,

No one can claim that the left whingers are ignoring Trump. This free publicity is what got him elected in the first place.
Posted by Shadow Minister, Saturday, 21 January 2017 4:26:19 AM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
Shadow Minister:

I am talking about bullying. Everyone is capable of ignoring him if he is personally bullying them just as the journalist did.

How they respond to his other behavior depends on what that behavior is.
Posted by phanto, Saturday, 21 January 2017 8:24:08 AM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
phanto

I'm not sure why you are addressing me. My comment was not about dealing with bullies.

My comment was that Trump had NOT bullied the man in question at all. Swinging the arms around is a common Trump gesture - sometimes to mock others, sometimes to mock himself. You can see this on the video I posted. You can also see that the man in question has complete control over his movements, other than one hand and forearm, which he can't move at all.

So the whole basis of Streep's argument, and those who support her, is false. The only bully I can see in all this is Streep herself.
Posted by Killarney, Saturday, 21 January 2017 9:11:27 AM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
Phanto,

You make statements like "Trump may be the biggest bully in the world.." and while other left whingers in your clique might nod sagely at this, it is complete drivel.

Some level of aggression is required to succeed at business, but bullies seldom do, as relationships need to be built and maintained. A known bully is Kevin Rudd who was abusive to subordinates and whose staff seldom lasted 6 months.

What other behaviour are you talking about? Lowering taxes
Posted by Shadow Minister, Saturday, 21 January 2017 10:17:47 AM
Find out more about this user Recommend this comment for deletion Return to top of page Return to Forum Main Page Copy comment URL to clipboard
  1. Pages:
  2. 1
  3. 2
  4. 3
  5. ...
  6. 8
  7. 9
  8. 10
  9. Page 11
  10. 12
  11. 13
  12. 14
  13. ...
  14. 23
  15. 24
  16. 25
  17. All

About Us :: Search :: Discuss :: Feedback :: Legals :: Privacy