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Connecting the dots: porn and women's declining libido : Comments
By Petra Bueskens, published 5/3/2012Women keep looking in the 'wallpaper' and it is turning them off!
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On the contrary, there is every physical and evolutionary reason reason to conclude that men "quest" and women "nest".
Primates usually exist in static communities with their food supply surrounding them. Humans, on the other hand, evolved into carnivorous hunters, here's an excerpt from zoologist and anthropologist, Desmond Morris's book "The Naked Ape":
"Because of the demands of his new way of life, he had to reduce his powerful primate urge never to leave the main body of the group...the hunting males also had to carry food supplies home for the nursing females and their slowly growing young. Paternal behaviour of this kind had to be a new development, for the general primate rule is that virtually all parental care comes from the mother...Because of the extremely long period of dependency of the young and the heavy demands made by them, the females found themselves almost perpetually confined to home base. In this respect the hunting apes new way of life threw up a special problem....the hunting parties, unlike those of "pure" carnivores had to become all-male groups. If anything was to go against primate grain it was this. For a virile primate to go off on a feeding trip an leave his females unprotected from the advances of other males that might happen by was unheard of.
The answer was the development of the pair bond. Male and female hunting apes had to fall in love and remain faithful to one another. This is a common tendency in many other groups of animals, but is rare amongst primates."