divine-msn,
the first part of your first post was fair enough, but I think I had every right to take the last bit to task as I did:

<If all the above are ruled out, I'd suggest the woman may not be feeling the 'love' and needs some non-sexual attention to reassure her of her partners feelings and re-ignite the passion.

Heard it said and think it's pretty true: Women worry about what men think of their bodies. Men on the other hand, are usually just happy that a woman is taking off her clothes for them. Finally - a bird in the hand is worth much more than two in the bush ... or smutty mag/video/website. Go figure ..>

It amazes me that there are endless complexities to the female that men are supposed to respect and pander to, yet the female can blithely dismiss men and their sexuality in this ignorant fashion.

You're entitled to an alternative viewpoint and I'm entitled to challenge it.