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Whose rights are they anyway? The children's? : Comments
By Bill Muehlenberg, published 3/9/2010Same s*x adoption. Are children just guinea pigs in this radical social experiment?
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I was really interested in your reply, it must have been fascinating to live through such huge and controversial changes in the life of the city.
I don't agree with your conclusion, though, that we shouldn't allow gay adoption because the children involved will always be singled out for prejudice.
The majority of such children are already in foster care relationships with gay couples, and so are already and will continue to have to deal with what is thrown at them in the playground. Adopting them will give them a legal security equal to that of other children, and this has to be better for them. The same applies to children in situations where one partner is the biological parent.
I don't want children to have to suffer either, but I deeply feel that this suffering is caused not by them having gay parents, but by the bigotry of people who will not accept gays as parents. These people are not thinking of the children involved, they are thinking of their own prejudices. I don't think that colluding with those prejudices by preventing gay adoption is going to help the children.
I don't think much would have been achieved in the world if we'd been intimidated by bullying bigots.
I'm not sure what you mean by saying there's "a finite number of homosexuals wanting to adopt." There may always be a smaller number of gays wanting to adopt, but finite?
Again, thank you for that glimpse into the transformation of Taylor Square and surrounds. Maybe you should write about it, because a lot of people would be interested.