spanky, you sound too good to be true, wanting nothing. In my view everybody wants something from their relationship, that is, nobody wants NOTHING. Otherwise we wouldnt bother having them. I see with many relationships/ marriges these days its still the company / 'rock' thing that people want and think they are going to get... a support person that one can share anything with. Though in my experience this dampens with time and i find the open sharing becomes closed as we (the couple) feel too familier with each other and it all becomes one big routine. ( And the sharing turns to advice, ha, in the name of helping wich if it was real help it ought be called 'suggesting'.)
What did you origionaly see in your relationship that made you want to marry? Or were you young and naive at the time. Did your wife have lots of good ideas and now you see them as nagging?
Its a bit souped up this marrige thing as living with anyone can be a trial because having another person around means you then need to take them into consideration. I dont think that i could try at living with a partner again im too selfish. When do you think it came to this point that the 'nagging' set in? Can you pin point it?
Was it because you both cant see another way to work the problems through?
Or is it because neither of you want to any more. Im sure you both worked through the problems once.