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Second, once a serious investigation was proposed, the problem was suddenly no longer important enough to bother with. In other words, the problem didn't really exist at all, just like the 99.9% of complaints about bullying.
Lexi, a workplace exists to perform a function first and foremost. People are not at work to be friends, although it's nice when it happens. If a person is not happy at work they have the right to leave with no questions asked. They do not have the right, it seems to me, to impose their own wish for a particular style of interaction or to demand that their colleagues act in a particular way.
A workplace is not a place for children.
Suze, I went to a boarding school from age 11. I was small for my age and much smaller than the older boys in my grade. My introduction to the place, on the very first day I was there, was to be beaten up by a boy because I put my bag on a bed he considered he had reserved for himself. I didn't complain to a master, because I was terrifed of the repercussions from my peers. Instead, I sucked it up, told myself that this person was dangerous and irrational and resolved to have as little as possible to do with him, which I managed more or less successfully.
Whatever bullying you think you've seen, I can assure you I've experienced a great deal worse. It's precisely because of that experience that I have little tolerance for a broadening of definitions to allow irksomely sensitive little flowers to make trouble for everyone simply becasue they have a "right".