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Why do we demonize men?
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Houlley likes to pretend that women only see female victims - that is not true. On OLO I have rarely seen any acknowledgment of the difficulties faced by woman especially in regard to rape or single parenthood, by some of the more vitriolic posters. I find that difficult to understand. But that is only on OLO thankfully it is not something that one encounters often in RL.
When someone brings up an issue like sexuality and asks why men should feel guilty about their sexual needs, my first reaction was I didn't know men felt guilty about their sexual needs. It is women who by and large, have lived with social pressure in regard to sexual needs ie. frigid or sl*t. A woman who expresses her sexual needs has always been seen as a tart whereas a man's sexual prowress gets a hearty good on you mate and a slap on the back. Do men want women to be just as sexually aggressive? I wouldn't know, but if the answer is no then lets not be hypocritical.
Same with single parenthood - no-one addressed my point earlier about the kudos given to men who raise children on their own contrasted with the demonisation of single mothers many who have had no choice in their singledom.
The only people who should be 'demonised' are the ones committing crimes such as rape or child abuse. There is too much wasted time and energy in demonising victims or the opposite sex.
A bit of honesty would not go astray on both sides.