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Saying sorry cannot undo any evil.
Fundies still with a faith like to tell everybody about losing the burden of sin upon accepting Jesus. Confession is like doing this after every slip up. It can help people to walk on the straight and narrow if they feel that their mistakes are set aside cf. identifying with past behaviour. I'll try an analogy. Two people have avoided overeating for months. Then Easter comes around and they pig out on easter eggs. One says "I have blown my diet" and overeats from then on. The other person accepts overeating as past of Easter which ends with Easter and they continue being disciplined. All things being equal the first person will be less healthy because they didn't just put things behind them. They have both 'sinned' equally but psychologically viewing the problem as something in the past leads to desirable future behaviour.
Only God and the perpetrators know but my suspicion is that you are correct that the perpetrators aren't believers.
"Or that a God would forgive this."
Again from a Christian perspective only God judges people's souls but theoretically anything can be forgiven. If it gives cognitive comfort...if only some things were forgiven how could a line be drawn? You are operating on the basis of some sins being forgiveable and some not so following through presumably a line would need to be drawn. Imagine two people almost identically sinful and both repentent. One had been a tiny bit more sinful thus putting them over the line. Would that make sense to you?
Even if you did believe in God I don't understand why the characteristics of a God would be determined by you (you seem to imply that you wouldn't believe in a God unless they were exactly like you wanted). Surely only a God could logically design a God(assuming standard concepts of same being an omnipotent being who is presumably a lot cleverer than us and can understand things a lot better).