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By Nina Funnell, published 9/12/2008Vicarious trauma: the trauma incited by an assault is rarely confined to the victim alone.
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No, it's yet another unsubstantiated claim. Do try to distinguish between facts and fantasies: your output would be so much more worthwhile.
Pynchme:"How are men (and some women) going to do to negotiate consent? How will people who want sex going to be able to show afterwards, should a charge of SA be made, what they did to assure themselves that the person they were with really wanted to have sex ?"
The time-honoured way among honourable people is to ask. What do you suggest should replace that? What standard of proof is enough in the world of the grrls who want to be victims?
Pynchme:"The law is contradictory and community attitudes are changing."
What aspects are contradictory? The law is perfectly in accordance with Westminster principles of justice, which demand proof beyond reasonable doubt in criminal matters. That applies to any crime, from shoplifting to murder.
As for "community attitudes", it would be surprising if the years of "woman as perpetual victim" propaganda jadn't had some impact. Nonetheless, sensible people recognise that it takes two to tango and most men are not interested in sex with an unwilling partner. The fact that women sometimes change their mind about their willingness post-facto is a matter for themselves, not for the Courts.