I again watched the TV program - "First Dates"
last night. People searching for love and
companionship, and permanent relationships
and commitment. Sex did not seem to be important.
People seemed to be searching for something more
meaningful. Which I found rather re-assuring.
The emphasis seemed to be on compatability more
than anything else.

This has been fun.
Have a nice day - I'm now going to make some pumpkin
soup.

Take care.

I say a cartoon recently where an elderly woman says to her husband "We're alone why don't we run upstairs and make love."

The Husband replies "I can only do one of those things"

shadowminister,

So very apt!

Loved it.

Roses are red
Nuts are brown
When desire goes up
Pants come down!

Those TV shows are obviously a farce. Only fools go on them looking for love, I suspect most people on there think they are 'insta famous' and want to find followers.

Sex is as important in a relationship as it is to the person to whom it matters most. That is, a couple can be sexless and perfectly happy. Not me, but some.

I love watching
some of the reality shows. It's a form of escapism.
I'm currently watching - "Beauty and the
Geek," and am amazed at the difference that being
given support and self-confidence makes to some of the
participants. It's actually quite moving.

As for sex?

Of course it's a personal matter. We're all different.
To me - a great partner is one who satisfies my emotional
appetite. People either connect or they don't.

I'm not looking for perfection. I do love tenderness.
But it is the rarest emotion one encounters.