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The Seal of the Confessional
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Suppose a certain boy (or girl) sexually seduced a disabled adult. The adult found it too hard to resist the child's advances (because in their condition they otherwise have no sex-life), thus the child gained their trust, entered their house and stole all their money. Please don't tell me that things like that do not happen!
Now the child feels guilty - and rightly so, so they repent and go to confession. They ARE the guilty party, so why should the actual victim suffer more instead? Under the new law, the child will never confess, probably because there will no longer be any confessions held as no priest will be willing to risk jail. The child will therefore receive no spiritual guidance, will have to keep it all inside and will continue to perpetrate similar crimes.
Another possibility is the confession of the child's parent who somehow finds out about the abuse, but knows too well that their child desperately wants to keep it secret so if the parent told the police (directly or otherwise), then they will be hated and lose all trust by their son/daughter forever who would (rightly) feel bitterly betrayed. Suppose the parent feels guilty because they believed that the abuse happened due to their own negligence - why can't such a suffering parent at least be able to confide in a priest?
Confession is not about forgiving/absolution: the enormous value of confessing is in the fact of telling someone else, anyone really, about exactly what you've done. In that alone rests the healing - the absolution is only a carrot to encourage people to confess, rather than the true reason why one ought to confess.