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«But courts have been frustrated by the lack of successful
prosecutions against sex offenders and the unfairness to victim»
It is never in the best interest of victims to make others suffer as well, including their old perpetrators. Some are ignorant of this truth, others blinded by anger, but courts should support the victims and their true interests rather then their destructive blind rage.
Haven't the victims suffered enough already?
Those who are willing to let go of their historical case and just live their lives in the present, gain peace. On the other hand, those who are holding onto and treasure their suffering, create more suffering to others and thereby ultimately to themselves in an endless vicious cycle that only makes the world a worse place.
This is not to say that the victims should forego their appropriate due compensation - and this is why, as should, civil courts always had more relaxed standards of evidence than criminal courts.
Looking somewhat deeper, beneath the limited human perspective, the term "unfair" can only apply to such potential future actions that ought to be avoided - nothing can be retrospectively unfair, nor in fact can there be any victims or coincidences: those who were sexually molested as children, were only handed back some previous karma for similar acts that they did in earlier lifetimes. The paedophile has only been the instrument for handing them this karma.
The best and healthiest approach when finding oneself at the receiving end of the stick, is to thank God for the opportunity to clear this old debt, then forget it and get on with life - this does not exclude taking timely and reasonable steps to prevent repeated abuse in the future, but not decades later when one is already an adult and can no longer be abused, nor when the perpetrator is old, frail or otherwise no longer capable of re-offending.