Hi all, it appears that Foxy is incapable of intelligent and diverse discourse.
Any attempt at extracting answers to questions and comments are immediately met with, at best erroneous assumptions or opinions personal or otherwise.
Even though she is reminded regularly to stay on topic she strays in a fanatical effort to have her views heard ad nauseum.
Her way of responding when she has no reasonable answer to a valid question or comment, is to deflect and completely ignore the post.
I am always one of the first to suggest getting back on topic.
I have taken leave, in this posting to set the record straight.
To do so I to, in response to Foxy, for the last time have gone off topic.
People, it has been said that any attempt to change someones mind or opinion on a forum is a waste of time.
I disagree.
If what someone is saying is simply based on personal opinions, fantasy or unrealistic expectations, they MUST be challenged otherwise they will infect the debate and steer it towards a wrong outcome.
Foxy claims to do a lot of reading and research.
What she is saying is she believes what she reads or sees.
This is not a healthy base for a debate or discussion because there are many versions to a story.
It is very narrow minded, presumptuous and arrogant to simply push a point at the expense of the truth.

I shall try one last time to clarify things for you.

This is a discussion forum. Therefore you have to
be prepared that there will be opinions that will
not agree with your own. If you choose to attack
those opinions - you will be subsequently ignored.
Nobody likes or support an illogical and abusive
debater.

You have displayed on this forum an irrational,
inflexible attitude toward an entire category of
people - women. Your negative feelings have shone
through. You've displayed antipathy, hostility, even
fear. The key feature of your assumptions is that
they are always rooted in generalisations and so
ignore the differences among individuals.

You have displayed a distinctive set of traits, including
conformity, intolerance and insecurity. You see the world
in very rigid and stereotyped terms.

Your thoughts are irrational, illogical, and inconsistent.

You are not at all concerned about genuine characteristics.
You simply accept any negative statement that feeds your
existing hostility. You are hostile towards people you have
never met or even had any contact with. And then you get
upset when I and many others don't choose to respond to
much of what you write.

You have to face the reality that unless you're willing
to listen to the opinions of others and not insult people -
nobody is going to take you seriously - because attitudes
like yours are no longer acceptable to most people.

I've reached the point where I no longer read what you post -
I simply scroll past when I see your name.

I shall continue to do this unless I see some changes in
your behaviour. So far this has not happened - hence I
have not responded to much of what you have written.
You have the illusion that only you know the "truth"
(truth cannot be owned). That people who disagree with
you are bad. And you show total disrespect for the
rights of others to hold different opinions.

My advice to you is - go to your GP and get a referral
for a medical professional who may be able to help you.

It is you who needs a reality check.
Your latest rant confirms it.
I am what I am, but at least I know it.
You on the other hand are the one you allege me to be.
As I said, 'look in the mirror'.
You see Foxy you can slur and slander as much as you like, but by doing so you have proven my case for me.
For example you have rarely responded to my charges.
Instead you have totally ignored the text and content, because you knew I was right and you had no viable response to counter with.
So you deflect in a spray of rage and frustration.
As for fear, you have enough of that in realising that your stance is a fantasy, another of your fabrications.
You can keep pushing your arrogant and self righteous agenda, you are one of those people with a questionable imagination.
Seeing as how you know people in the psych dept at uni, it is only fitting that you get yourself checked out first.
Ladies first.
And you say chivalry is gone.
You see I DO respect women.
BTW, if you wish to redeem your cred on this forum, please answer my question about it being illegal to show preference to one gender or the other in todays work place, or job adds.

Thank you for creating this thread ttbn and for your comments.
Jordan Peterson has made some interesting points in regards to this subject matter especially the interview with Kathy Newman who was perhaps a bit over her head. But it's sad that the Identity Lobby has been able to convince women to turn against their partners and in effect their families and their culture

Canem Malum,

Jordan Peterson - and his pithy sentences?

There are plenty of people out there looking for
a prophet.

High intellect, or just another angry white guy?

"Sort yourself out, bucko."

Foxy - Respectfully please watch the interview with Kathy Newman. Many here have probably already seen it.