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Oh Dear, another child marriage
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A few years ago I read an interesting article
reprinted in The Age by Phillip Adams. It was
taken from a speech he gave when asked
to speak at a Canberra Conference on "Multi-Culturalism
in the Eighties."
Adams then - pointed out that:
"Yes there will be problems in a society that sees
homogenety as not only desirable but mandatory.
There will be tension between the ethnic groups
and "us," not to mention between and within the
etnic groups themselves. Sadly, many of the problems
that develop will impinge on the children of the
communities, as they fight their disapproving parents
for the right to go to a disco, for the right to
choose a lover "outside".
And "we" will want to intervene when we see those
children subjected to extreme authoritarianism or sexism.
But in the process we'll have a more vigorous,
exciting Australia and in the end, through interaction
and discussion, we'll sort the problems out."
Obviously this has not happened for everyone here.
Yes, some people
have adapted very well -
and more will continue to adapt very well.
But there are others who will select to choose their
own way - and disregard our rule of law.
All we can do is continue to make it quite clear
that our laws are for everyone.
That we expect everyone in this country to abide by our
laws. That forced marriages of children are not acceptable here.
That children are not capable of making decisions about
marriage. They cannot give their consent.
Whether these problems can be sorted out or not - only
time will tell. Hopefully, living in this country, young
girls will grow up and will be able to decide for themselves
the kind of lives they wish to live without being forced
to live the life dictated to them by others.