Lexi,

To be honest, if the gender roles were reversed a joke would not have been possible.

otb, let it go mate, that's a good boy. When you grow up you'll learn these things.

Lexi I guess there's not one person alive who hasn't had a cross to bear. I'm sorry to hear about your young nephew. I guess it's all in how we come out the other end of adversity. There's a story about on the net called "two choices" It's a wonderful story. If we've had something good happen we are elated for a short while. If it was bad some people are affected forever & can never let go. I guess that's where I was lucky. Things you learn the moment that first bullet cracks by your cheek & you have watched that little black dot get bigger & bigger in slow motion. The rest of your live is a breeze. What do they say? Attitude adds up to 110%. Or you can choose to live in misery. It’s your choice to make. I think there are a lot of people around that have chosen the latter, unfortunately & the rest of us have to put up with their negativity all the time. Don’t Worry, Be Happy.

Actually, I have decided to put "Two Choices" link up. I think it could pertain to this Forum issue. Still, it's a good read.

http://chainletters.net/chainletters/two-choices/

Dear onthebeach,

I hope you read Jayb's "two choices,"
letter. It's inspiring.

Dear Jayb.,

Thank you for the "two choices," link.
I've copied it for myself, family, and friends.
Again Thank You!

A copy to all professional footballers do you think?