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Some of us 'Just don't get it.'
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Lexi,
This reminded me of a book on how Muslim should conduct themselves when differences arise over teachings. the book is titled The Ethics of Disagreement in Islam" (http://www.witness-pioneer.org/vil/Books/TA_edi/Default.htm). It begins with a warning similar to yours and goes on to distill the lessons to be leaned from how the Prophet and companions settled disputes. Some of the points made, i think, have general applicability:
<<5. Commitment to God-consciousness and avoidance of personal whims made the pursuit of truth alone the goal of those who differed over an issue. It did not matter to anyone in a discussion whether the truth was voiced by him or by another person.
6. They adhered steadfastly to the Islamic norms of behavior during argumentation. They discussed matters politely and amicably, avoiding the use of vile and insulting language. Each was prepared to listen attentively to the other.
7. They eschewed hypocrisy and flattery as far as possible and exerted every effort to investigate an issue objectively. This practice, characterized by the seriousness of the argument and respect for the other person, would force the disputant into either accepting the other point of view or advancing a better opinion. >>
http://www.witness-pioneer.org/vil/Books/TA_edi/chapter3.html