Good point Anti, went through it. I know I brought it upon myself for playing games and not disclosing enough information. But that is my choice. 2+2 should equal to 4, but to some 2+2 equals to 22? I understand human nature a lot, and I learn a lot here.

Even though some female(s) have hurt you, does not mean all of them are the same. I can live with the attacking, just feel sad to see how people have evolved into. That's all...

Oh, and also, I'm not really the type who's going to sit there while some stranger gets their facts(god knows from where) wrong about me and insults my children. So there.

We all want equality, and that will come only in the future, right now, it is this presence we life in, so accept it. I don't have an issue with my physical world, it is always filled with smiles and i see couples in love, and happy family with happy kids. :)

oppss, off topic.. sorry. well R-E-S-P-E-C-T(like dat song) Anti for your last post:)

It wasn’t easy Belly, I always found myself using something as an example I shouldn’t be from a deleted post or thread and going back to delete where I became too specific. And to discuss moderation while not discussing moderation seemed to increase coffee and nicotine intake back here behind the screen.

Thanks to Jinny for all the examples of doh, mild off topic, me me me, and irritating behavior. All of which we have learnt are tolerated but thank goodness for Houel’s scroll wheel.

Gold stars to everyone that tried to educate her then gave up and tried instead to shut her up, obviously nothing works.

Sorry about Blue, I was all okay with it but OLO democracy rules and that works for me. I am starting to doubt my own ability to recognize if I am being abused or not anyway.

And Anti, only today did I understand about your reference to the “shaky Isles”. Good one. :)

TPP I think you know me by now,have a habit of saying it as I think.
And you have done nothing to change my mind you are ok.
Blue? do me a favor look at his brief post history, note the wild unfocused difference in a few.
Never be sorry for a post deletion, I never saw one handled that way that did not leave no other way, even mine.
I am unhappy with your insults Jinny.
But far worse my life has been one of trying to help others, you seem unwilling to hear good advice.
You would be aware that I am not as you claim, if I was without doubt I would publish the content of deleted posts, ones I told GY about to? protect you., and be suspended.
Find it in you, to under stand help must in your case be self help.
I will not, ever respond to you here again, you must prepare your self to live in the real world not hide online help comes quicker if you try.

Belly I changed my mind today, about half an hour ago.

Not seeing the forest for the trees or something. I came back feeling like I was a guest and should behave although not much slows me down if really annoyed like by miss long time small j.

But all through this thread I’ve been thinking of the site belonging to one person so of course you just put up and shut up.

While prattling on about the OLO community I missed something really fundamental.

Everybody.

People aren’t happy, I’ve come back to find them gone because of moderation. Maybe it wasn’t enough to clarify the rules maybe more questions were needed.

I’ll still put up and shut up or leave since obviously the choices are that simple, and I still want any banning to happen at sunset.

But is it supposed to be this way? We spend a lot of time talking about the rights and wrongs we see in the world and haven’t sorted our own little place. Something is festering here and it’s bugging me because I can’t figure out what it is.

Well, I think you've revived the thread TPP. I also have been feeling a little sanctimonious--by association as much as my own petty contributions. I've always had an aversion for hegemony and things seem somehow disquietingly settled, don't they...?
There has to be a little rough-house and the odd random element (like jinny) lest we become pietistic..

Just beat me to it, Squeers,

Wherever humans gather to discuss their opinions there will always be a few that are rancorous and others that are overly sensitive.
Ultimately if a forum is to be worth its salt in robust and diverse opinion there are bound to be occasions when some contributors are dissatisfied with the style of moderation.