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i got you the first time, thanks. Open my mind to what? Hide my problems? This is a forum. period. Beside, not allowed to discuss 'personal' issues remember? and you don't have to keep repeating yourself, don't respond to me if you can't stand my opinion. Like you know who it's directed to, unless i state a username. besides, i think you've 'helped' me enough. help regarding my situation i deal with in the physical world, not here..

with the rules of this forum, it still hasn't been said what personal matters can't be discussed and what not. Isn't everything personal?

i think im allowed to express my opinions however i choose to write and post it, use the scroll wheel if you dislike my posts, simple and easy.

don't wash ur hands so many times, ur wasting precious water here.. :p
Posted by jinny, Friday, 26 November 2010 7:00:27 AM
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jinny,

I think that a personal issue, with facts, can be raised as a particular/example, thus, leading into a wider general and disinterested issue to be discussed.

Obviously, non of us here are equiped to discuss a personal problem, nor should we even venture to. There are many excellent avenues where you can obtain advice. Unfortunately, OLO is not one of them.

OLO is set up to debate points of, and contribute (and hopefully not got off tangent) to a topic raised.

Good Luck
Posted by Danielle, Sunday, 28 November 2010 6:42:09 PM
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Danielle: errr... i've stopped discussing my personal issues here a while ago. just don't like everyone doubting me and judging me so i explain. think i can sort our lives out myself, thanks for the concern.

don't ask for help here, just like to study human behavior and question their actions. sorry if i bother u.

contributions are great, grumbles aren't, coz then don't bring anyone any benefit. there is a lot of good knowledge shared on this forum, and i sometimes like to spend some of my time here.

i wish u will all stop judging me from the past, as u don't have any right to, because none of you know anything about me but as a natural human behavior, you like to assume. i am sorry i am not welcome here by some.
Posted by jinny, Sunday, 28 November 2010 6:52:01 PM
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I Jinny once again am breaking my word, only to try yet again to help you, no other reason.
My life has not been easy always but every day of it I try to help not hurt people.
If you knew me you would know it, I am a sucker for a bad luck story.
I except English is not your first language, and that you are trying to live in a country that is not the one you come from.
Your past? no one knows your past here.
We only know what you tell us.
So it may not be easy for you to look and see but the fact is posters have tried to help.
Have you considered this? look at your every post from the time you came here.
I have read every one of mine twice, more if I got it wrong.
You constantly Jinny make reference to people judging you, not liking you.
I think the person who seems not to like you the most can be found in your bath room.
Jinny look in to a mirror give your self a chance no human ever gets it right all the time.
We Aussies can Be defensive, we dislike being rubbished on no evidence.
But most of us, fly to the defense of a woman every time I did that for you my actions saw some deletions happened.
My reward is not for me, Jinny help your self take that look and start rebuilding your life.
Posted by Belly, Sunday, 28 November 2010 7:41:41 PM
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Belly "only to try yet again to help you"

I think jinny has made it clear that she is not wanting help from posters on OLO. The thread with most of the detail has gone along with cross thread posts repeating that detail (and adding extra).

Unless jinny chooses to start making comment on others lives and choices or seeks to re-introduce her own stuff into the discussion it's probably past time to stop trying to help.

I know you mean well but I can't see any way that will happen with what you are doing.

Danielle summed up pretty well the way I see the personal issues stuff. Useful as examples but a big problem if they are only up here for validation.

R0bert
Posted by R0bert, Sunday, 28 November 2010 7:54:19 PM
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thanks*R0bert*for helping putting it into perspection.

Belly:thankyou for your kind words, once again i hv to correct u. u see, when i look in the mirror i have see a wat i see, and hv no problems wt that. i don't need to look in the mirror to know who i am. i told my dad he needs to tho and i'm goinna get a stand up mirror for him for his next birthday so he can sit with it every night and talk to his reflection :p. i don't even need to tell myself because every day, many times i am told by others how i am. :) so yes, i am blessed, but my physical and verbal appearance has come wt a hefty price. u see, i know he and whoever he's managed to lie to once again is watching my every move, my every post. but i also know, i don't hv to do much for he will self destruct eventually.. then i will be at peace, the others do not bother me that much anymore as i have eliminated them. i understand ur worry, but there is nothing to worry bout.. it's just life. :)

i do not know you, but i appreciate the knowledge u share which has thought me alot, if u haven't realized, from my first naive post till now, i learn a lot from u. btw, English is my first language just that i grew up with other languages as well so my command of it is not as good as yours.

i know aussies pretty well as i know the best of them, and the *...*. the new 'friends' i hv made in my few months here are such good hearted ppl they amaze me sometimes. i'm just too busy right now wt the kids and my future to spend time with them. i actually hv to kick them out n not respond..coz i'm nice:P

i hv big trust issues as the ones i once laid my trust upon turned out to be the biggest disappointments.please forgive me for that.
Posted by jinny, Sunday, 28 November 2010 9:09:51 PM
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