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By Helen Pringle, published 8/7/2009'Shush girl. Shush your lips. Do the Helen Keller and talk with your hips,' is not an appropriate anthem for 21C girls
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As for research on DV, probably not worth the effort. I've posted that stuff often enough and I don't recall a single time that there has been a genuine attempt at rebuttal of the material or evidence of research which has demonstrated an attempt to remove collection bias which also shows the overwhelming gender disparity in DV you so love.
I assume that you would use the usual tactic of pointing out that the model is not perfect whilst ignoring the problems associated with not asking men about their experience of DV when doing surveys, of ignoring the problems associated with assuming it's justified and self defense when women do it (but never when men do it), ignoring the problems with describing non physical acts as DV and assuming that only men can use words to hurt etc.
Thankfully I think younger women are waking up to what power feminism has been doing and not taking you it seriously.
Cornflower I got the impression that the students were probaby stirring someone who had made their gender millitancy a little to well known as well.
Possibly the article title put me off, I wonder if the author picked it. Sometimes we do need to stand up to a partner but if it needs to be that way too often then it's not much of a relationship or partnership.
Those subject to genuine DV should be able to speak up in safety (and if a glassing did occur then that would qualify). Those determined to stay in a relationship where DV is present will always have a problem and I doubt that society can ever do much about that without doing greater harm.
Is there any reason to believe that the woman in this situation is physically afraid to leave Bird, that there are indications that he poses a threat to her safety if she ends the relationship?
R0bert