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Lies, deception and paternity fraud : Comments
By Akiva Quinn, published 16/11/2006Women’s rights good, men’s rights bad - sounds like doublethink to me.
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"you can also grow more cynical and mistrusting too"
Of course you can, but not if you reflect and find that you have done similar things, not been trustworthy yourself.
Graciously accepting the lessons we get through life is not passive-resistance: quite the opposite of resistance - it is liberation. Yes, it is better to get there "yourself consciously with a good heart" - but how many do? most people, to some degree or another, wait for calamities and prefer to learn the hard way.
"Or the deceivers could control themselves, not deceive and stop the vicious cycle there."
"vicious cycle" is the nature of the world. Just as one cannot stop the earth from going around itself and around the sun, one cannot fundamentally change human behaviour and motives. The most one can do is take care of their own moral and spiritual well-being and become "in this world but not of this world".
"they'll have no more kids, don't help charities"
Nowadays, having no more kids is in fact doing a favour to this overpopulated and over-heated world where humans are already far out of balance.
Also, there are many ways to be charitable other than openly donating to the formal and socially-recognized (tax-deductable) charities.
"Remember also that this case involves young children who have no say in the matter. At least leave them out of it"
While children are young in body, they are not young in spirit. They themsleves have not chosen to stay out of it, but rather to be born into this particular situation (in order to make amends for their previous actions and use life to learn their next lessons).