Toni, if you want to be taken seriously, give in ONCE IN A WHILE.
Let the others catch their breath.
Bag me all you like but please find fault in what I say and not me.
Look I'll put it bluntly again for you.
Do you want to know that your mother was,(we are talking about promiscuity) a slut.
Stories about her past slowly creep into conversations, sly comments surface from time to time until you become fully aware of her past.
If you are not left with even a slight inkling of disappointment and a feeling of having been deceived or even lied to?
If your OK with all that, then good for you, and I won't bother you with it any further.

ALTRAV,

I'm going to quote from a Birthday card that I wrote
to my mum on her 90th Birthday. She passed away
in late January of this year. And I miss her dreadfully.

"When we were growing up you once explained what miracles
were. You may not remember, but we do. Now on your 90th
Birthday, we'd like to express the following:

"As beautiful as the most awesome of sunsets,
As vast as a clear, cloudless sky,
As bright as the first twinkling star
of the evening,
As rare as a jewelled butterfly...
As wondrous as blossoms unfolding their splendour
As wise as the tallest trees,
As grand as the mountains that reach to the heavens,
As free as a light-hearted breeze -
You're the best of God's gifts -
His most precious creation -
A one-of-a-kind, perfect you!
And your 90th Birthday is a time to give thanks and remember -
That you are a miracle too."

Happy Birthday! (Ilgiausiu Metu!) Happy 90th!

A lovely thought and heartfelt recognition of what your mother meant to you.
Sorry for your loss.