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Why I decided not to move in with my girlfriend : Comments
By Bernard Toutounji, published 9/5/2012The cohabiting couple make the subliminal statement to each other that 'I don't need to be married to you to have sex with you'.
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Posted by Lorikeet, Thursday, 17 May 2012 9:00:37 AM
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As a 17 year old, I dated a guy for 3 months, by which time he wanted to become engaged. I had previously noted his best friend to have become engaged to a very beautiful girl (virgin) of similar age, so he could access a sexual relationship for 6 months and then dump her, before moving onto the next victim of his false love. This was a common experience in the mid-70s. I decided to give this guy a miss and look for someone with a more wholesome agenda.
A very nice girl I knew became a single mother at age 17 after acceding to the wishes of her boyfriend, who promptly left her not only holding the baby, but being victimised by other people's scorn as well.
There are lots of women around who say their boyfriends left them after about 2 years of cohabitation.
I think there is some validity in the old adage: "Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?"
How about this one? "Why buy a single cow when you can milk the whole herd?"
Everyone needs to take responsibility for the little lives they create and the lives they break, and not try to trick other people into believing they have some ongoing interest in anything other than accessing sex.
In 2012, males are also suffering from sexual abuses inflicted on them by females, since the society seems to have gradually assumed an increasing degree of gender role reversal, now with "woman as sexual predator".
Broken relationships are now a leading cause of youth suicide.