ttbn,

What you think of me or anyone else is totally irrelevant
to this forum. As well as to any of us.
If you don't like what is being
written or said - you don't have to read it.

And yet despite what you say - your actions speak volumes.
You just can't seem to stop with your labelling, insults,
and attacks. That to all of us - indicates that we must
upset you very much for you to behave in this irrational
way. Practice what you preach - for the sake of your own
sanity and if you find us so dreadful - simply stay away.
Otherwise you're heading for a breakdown. Your behaviour
is becoming stranger and stranger - and that's not good
for you. You display all the psychological signs of a
highly disturbed person.

What can we do to help you?

The arrogance that makes you think speak for anyone else is mind boggling. Your clumsy attempts at amateur psychology are ridiculous. You don't like what I say, but you keep on reading it and sounding off about like it a spoilt brat.

You think I should “stay away”. Dream on, sister. That’s not going to happen. You are the one who needs take a break and sort yourself out. Perhaps a shelter where there are no men to suss out your manias.

No matter what I say, you will keep coming back, like a ratty teenager, and I can't be bothered with your childish tantrums any longer. You and your nutty little gang live in a world of your own; and that's where you belong.

Foxy, maybe I could try to put my oar in.
I think I understand those of your lean and also ttbn.
I am slowly noting that one trait seems prevalent in each side's stance.
Your stance is more of one based on emotion, such as 'doing the right thing'.
ttbn's is more about the practical and 'real' world, not one based on emotion, such as 'the way things should be or could be', but the way they 'are'.
I'm only commenting on this because I sometimes feel empathetic to those who do not share your views and suggestions.
I know I take a more aggressive stance because, even though it means I don't agree with my detractors, I find that what I say is challenged on emotional grounds and not on the grounds of what is actually going on out there, maybe because it is not a pretty picture and like yourself, you don't want to hear it or believe it.
I think what frustrates those of us like ttbn, is that we are being asked to accept something we know to be untrue.
This is why I and others push so hard to have PC not just removed, but destroyed.
I know you would like everyone to like each other and not say nasty things, but even in a room full of the kindest people on Earth, we can still discriminate in that we can still line them up in order of best to worst.
All we have done is moved the bar, and so we come back to where we were in the beginning.
The ones at the low end will still be treated the same as before, so we will never be rid of discrimination, only change it's level of perception.
I gave the example where upsetting someone is just part of life.
Telling someone a loved one has died in a car crash is one of the most upsetting things.
Telling someone they are 'fat' or obese is offensive, but yet it has to be done for whatever reason.
Anyway it's just a 'work in progress'.

ttbn,

The negative feedback that I experience from you is
a good thing. Here's why:

Negative feedback will help me to spot things that either
I did not see coming or did not consider. Therefore it
will help me to rectify it in the future. I'm going to
embrace your comments as a way to learn and improve.

ALTRAV,

Your concern is noted and deeply appreciated.

I have made an effort even posting in this authors threads, but gee fellas hang on you will not agree with Foxy or me but you do not get the right to insult her endlessly for having a different opinion.
Both posters claim they represent the right side of every conversation, a truth needs addressing.
you get it wrong too, and stop the verbal bashing it is without reason or taste
see you in another thread