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50 Years On, Is There Anything To Celebrate?
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In a nutshell Joe. It's a cultural mindset and as long as they keep receiving enough to keep them relatively happy then they see no need to over exert themselves.
Why care for a house if they aren't forced to pay for damages they inflict. Moan long enough and the government will build you a new one. And while they are waiting they'll just move in with Aunty and overcrowd her house and she can't complain because it's not culturally acceptable to do so.
Why bother to wipe a child's nose, it will only be dirty again in 5 minutes and if he gets Trachoma from flies attracted to it, well, does it really matter in the long run? Someone will pay for the medical treatment and give him assistance.
For those with ambition they soon learn that to act differently to the herd brings scorn and derision so they either give up or leave.
I can remember when I was the bookkeeper in the community and had to train local girls in office procedure. They were under constant demand from relatives to loan them money from the cash we had on hand to pay wages ( this was before the days of internet banking). When they refused they were either accused of being unloyal or of stealing money from the office for themselves. Very few lasted more than a couple of weeks. The only one I had success with was a girl from a very different area who had married a local so had no skin ties in the community.
The only way I can see forward for this group is to let them suffer consequences of their decisions as a community and stop rescuing them when it goes pear shaped