Not all blokes are blessed with the art of articulation, especially when emotions are numb and raw. It has often been portrayed that men are not good at expressing their feelings.

History has plenty of examples where men and women, have sex with their partners best friend.

Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend. Such tactic not only basically destroys any chance of the couple resolving their differences, it also destroys the male partners relationship to his closest support system. His best mate.

What is this thread about, exactly, WollyB?
Are we discussing adultery?
If we are, then it takes two to commit adultery.

How dare the 'best mate' have sex with the wife!
He was obviously never the best mate...

"Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend."

And what genious told you that? Another woman-hater like you?

"Don't touch a man's wallet"! What has that to do with your sad little story?

You have big problems, pal. Try counselling. Your attitude to women is disgraceful.

OP, "History has plenty of examples where men and women, have sex with their partners best friend"

That refers to both sexes. Likely too while indulging themselves elsewhere they still reserve their legal right to their partner's support and assets.

Since OLO's No1 gay advocate Suseonline is posting, just a reminder that the alphabetical set LGBTIXYZ would complain that they are equal (and perhaps more so) to heteros where sexual deceit is concerned and for not taking responsibility after.

With Labor's substantial broadening of the definition and applicability of de facto, the present push to trash the Marriage Act and recognising that partners in marriage now have few responsibilities & accountabilities except where that wallet/handbag and assets are concerned, it is high time that the leftist 'Progressives', feminists and Queer Theory activists who have wrought the changes came up with a new definition and contract for marriage.

As far as I am concerned and there are many of a similar view, those leftist activists' concept of marriage is far different, chalk and cheese, from what my wife and I entered into all those years ago. That being so and particularly with an election on the way they need to explain just where marriage is heading under their watch and for what ends.

That end product that replaces the despised 'traditional marriage', the new future the 'Progressives' and Queer Theory activists want is NOT being discussed, but why not? Maybe the 'fact-finding (LOL) ABC could explain. Then again the ABC is avoiding the subject too.

Garry Lyons mates with Billy Brownless, has an affair with Mrs Brownless.

Wayne Carey, has an affair with Kelli Stevens the wife of a team mate.

Billy Brownless goes on the footy show and says;

"You don't touch another man's wallet, you don't touch his w..."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/2016/03/10/billy-brownless-the-footy-show_n_9433392.html

"Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend." And what genious told you that? Another woman-hater like you?

Posted by ttbn, Tuesday, 22 March 2016 9:58:16 AM

So ttbn where are you coming from? What is all the hostility?

I have something to add.
I think its a really sad state of affairs when men start supporting women in issues where men should be supporting men.

There's a term for this behavior ttbn, its called "Mangina".

I think part of the reason women sometimes cope with things better than men is because they have good support mechanisms with each other and men avoid discussing overly emotional issues with each other.

So women do generally have the better support mechanism than men, and its really sad when men forget what side they are on an act like the woman.

ttbn my questions are do you like the feel of soft silky and frilly undergarments as well?
Have you ever considered penis-tucking?
In today's PC world it's not frowned upon, if you do.
- Just saying...

It's not wrong to support women, but don't forget who you actually are and that you weren't actually born one, even if maybe you wish you were.

And yes, Wolly B, that's what women do these days in the power struggles that relationships sometimes become.