Not all blokes are blessed with the art of articulation, especially when emotions are numb and raw. It has often been portrayed that men are not good at expressing their feelings.

History has plenty of examples where men and women, have sex with their partners best friend.

Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend. Such tactic not only basically destroys any chance of the couple resolving their differences, it also destroys the male partners relationship to his closest support system. His best mate.

What is this thread about, exactly, WollyB?
Are we discussing adultery?
If we are, then it takes two to commit adultery.

How dare the 'best mate' have sex with the wife!
He was obviously never the best mate...

"Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend."

And what genious told you that? Another woman-hater like you?

"Don't touch a man's wallet"! What has that to do with your sad little story?

You have big problems, pal. Try counselling. Your attitude to women is disgraceful.

OP, "History has plenty of examples where men and women, have sex with their partners best friend"

That refers to both sexes. Likely too while indulging themselves elsewhere they still reserve their legal right to their partner's support and assets.

Since OLO's No1 gay advocate Suseonline is posting, just a reminder that the alphabetical set LGBTIXYZ would complain that they are equal (and perhaps more so) to heteros where sexual deceit is concerned and for not taking responsibility after.

With Labor's substantial broadening of the definition and applicability of de facto, the present push to trash the Marriage Act and recognising that partners in marriage now have few responsibilities & accountabilities except where that wallet/handbag and assets are concerned, it is high time that the leftist 'Progressives', feminists and Queer Theory activists who have wrought the changes came up with a new definition and contract for marriage.

As far as I am concerned and there are many of a similar view, those leftist activists' concept of marriage is far different, chalk and cheese, from what my wife and I entered into all those years ago. That being so and particularly with an election on the way they need to explain just where marriage is heading under their watch and for what ends.

That end product that replaces the despised 'traditional marriage', the new future the 'Progressives' and Queer Theory activists want is NOT being discussed, but why not? Maybe the 'fact-finding (LOL) ABC could explain. Then again the ABC is avoiding the subject too.

Garry Lyons mates with Billy Brownless, has an affair with Mrs Brownless.

Wayne Carey, has an affair with Kelli Stevens the wife of a team mate.

Billy Brownless goes on the footy show and says;

"You don't touch another man's wallet, you don't touch his w..."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com.au/2016/03/10/billy-brownless-the-footy-show_n_9433392.html

"Decades ago I was told that if a woman really wants to hurt a bloke, she will sleep with his best friend." And what genious told you that? Another woman-hater like you?

Posted by ttbn, Tuesday, 22 March 2016 9:58:16 AM

So ttbn where are you coming from? What is all the hostility?

I have something to add.
I think its a really sad state of affairs when men start supporting women in issues where men should be supporting men.

There's a term for this behavior ttbn, its called "Mangina".

I think part of the reason women sometimes cope with things better than men is because they have good support mechanisms with each other and men avoid discussing overly emotional issues with each other.

So women do generally have the better support mechanism than men, and its really sad when men forget what side they are on an act like the woman.

ttbn my questions are do you like the feel of soft silky and frilly undergarments as well?
Have you ever considered penis-tucking?
In today's PC world it's not frowned upon, if you do.
- Just saying...

It's not wrong to support women, but don't forget who you actually are and that you weren't actually born one, even if maybe you wish you were.

And yes, Wolly B, that's what women do these days in the power struggles that relationships sometimes become.

WollyB,

I'm not hostile; I feel sorry for you. You seem to have been mixing with the wrong people - both male and female.

Posted by ttbn, Thursday, 24 March 2016 11:03:46 PM

I will repeated what other women, have said about their own gender

When I first heard it expressed, I did not understand and it took me many years to figure it out.

"Women are bitches"
"She is a bitch"
"Women can be bitches"

Usually this type of behaviour, is either conducted away from men, so that they don't observe it, or it is done, in a covert fashion.

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You seem to have been mixing with the wrong people - both male and female.
unquote.

A lot of the women who have expressed "Women can be bitches" are in the same type of employment as Susieonline. They are nurses.

Although I must admit, even women who are not nurses have expressed the same thing.

Charming as always WollyB, I'm not sure if the many male nurses would agree with your generalization of what you think nurses might say. But then , you always seem a little behind the times.

"Some cause happiness wherever they go;
others, whenever they go."
-Oscar Wilde

>NEW mothers who return to work beware — women are out to get you. Only 41% of women would support a friend who chooses to go back to work after having kids if they are not the primary breadwinner, according to a new survey.

Charming as always WollyB, I'm not sure if the many male nurses would agree with your generalization of what you think nurses might say.
Posted by Suseonline, Saturday, 26 March 2016 9:48:01 PM

Firstly Susie, I quoted what women have said to me.

This link are the comments of a male nurse
http://thenursepath.com/2015/11/01/climbing-out-of-the-bully-pit/

WollyB,

Here's something from me, a male, for you to quote: some men are utter scumbags; they treat women worse than they would treat a dog; when their partner dresses to look nice for them, they look like tramps with plumber's cracks; they get pissed and belt their partners; they forget birthdays and anniversaries; they expect to be waited on, and never do anything about the house themselves. The list of their sins goes on and on. That's a male comment on some males. And, another thing that you don't understand about women is that they are more naturally perceptive than we are, and know what we're thinking. They know what you think of them, and that's your main problem with women, pal. Your comments are an insult to the woman I have lived with for 48 years, and to the vast majority of all women.

Ttbn, well said.
Your wife is a lucky woman.

There are good and bad amongst both genders of course, but I can't stand people who make such awful generalizations as WollyB does. An angry little man...

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And, another thing that you don't understand about women is that they are more naturally perceptive than we are, and know what we're thinking. They know what you think of them, and that's your main problem with women, pal. Your comments are an insult to the woman I have lived with for 48 years, and to the vast majority of all women.
Posted by ttbn, Sunday, 27 March 2016 10:16:17 AM

Seeing that this topic has turned into a personal attack.

I will again say that I am quoting what some women have said to me about other women.

Yes it is true that women are generally more perceptive than men, so you are not telling me anything new.

So what is so wrong about exploring the negative behaviour of some women?

Susieonline is extremely happy to point out the negative behaviour of males, and to make personal attacking comments

WoollyB, why are you just having a go at me, the female poster, and not ttbn?
You are a hypocrite.

WoollyB, why are you just having a go at me, the female poster, and not ttbn?
You are a hypocrite.
Posted by Suseonline, Sunday, 27 March 2016 7:45:11 PM

Both you and ttbn have made personal attacks.

So are you happy now Susie?? ??

Now lets discuss tactics,

One tactic is to move the topic away from the original topic, another tactic is to demonise the messenger

.

WollyB

Neither suse nor I have attacked half the the population, without even knowing most of them; you have.

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Neither suse nor I have attacked half the the population, without even knowing most of them; you have.
Posted by ttbn, Monday, 28 March 2016 11:27:46 AM

Now let me get this right, I have attack half of the human race!!

I have repeated what other women have said to me, and I have attack half the human race??

Get real!

So rather than having a discourse about why most women don't deserve to be called bitches, and why other women accuse their own gender of being a bitchy.

That is really rich (sarcasm).

Erin Pizzey wrote about who she labelled as the "Family Terrorist".

Now please note Erin is a female.

Read Secrets of the Single Sex Workplace

http://pandora.nla.gov.au/pan/38333/20060423-0000/www.kittennews.com/kn_mag/06_jun03mag/warrior_07.html

I actually agree with this statement. For me, a wallet is just like a phone and nobody else should touch it without my permission.

I don't think anyone should touch a woman's wallet either.....especially any man....

Well appears that nobody really want to touch this topic with a barge pole.