The Forum > General Discussion > Man Therapy
Man Therapy
- Pages:
-
- 1
- Page 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
- ...
- 23
- 24
- 25
-
- All
The National Forum | Donate | Your Account | On Line Opinion | Forum | Blogs | Polling | About |
Syndicate RSS/XML |
|
About Us :: Search :: Discuss :: Feedback :: Legals :: Privacy |
I cant agree.
I see it all as a bit of a paradox. I observe an innate inability for anyone in the appropriate industry to reach out to a certain, very common type of man without patronizing and emasculating and alienating him.
It's almost as if anyone in that type of touchy feely caring profession cannot possibly relate to a great many men, and it is akin to an old fogey trying to be cool with the kids by asserting they like a very daggy pop music band.
On the macro level, I have seen the absolutely cringe-worthy attempts by NGO and government to 'reach out' to men with mental health issues.
On the micro level, I personally found I was totally unable to be helped in any way, could not find anyone with the right manner, or the barest of insight into my mindset, took the drugs, went off them, manipulated therapists, went back on them, was further depressed by how easy it was and how amateur and clueless people were, enjoyed it, self medicated, developed my own coping mechanisms, and generally came to a well rounded conclusion that not everything is a problem or condition, some people are just different, and life is a rollercaster, and my realty is just as valid and infinitely more entertaining than the sensible people with sound emotional and mental health.
The sanest people sometimes are the ones who have trouble reconciling the realty of their situation against the official fiction and the eternal lies.
BTW: I did find it very telling in one article I remember on OLO, where the central reason promoted for having a mens health initiative was because of the effect on women of men neglecting their physical and mental health.
PS: Kudos to pelican for avin-a-go.