your getting some good replies jinny,..so i will try to add my opinion too...why is is as it is

is because fear needs others to share their fears

think of fear as loosing energy..
and that in the after life
the fears ...we leeched out from fearfull events during our lives.. form mirror images ..of that we feared

our live fears..supports these phantoms..
helps sustain them a zombi/like version of life

[empty human like shell-forms
..formed by people's fears

made/kept.. real by ..real or imagined fears

that eminate ..from us ..when we fear
giving these phantoms... their....needed life-force ..energy
to sustain their ...astral form...that allows human body occupation

these ghosts/..waifs ..forms/ shells.. are only sustained
a ..resemblance of life ..by feeding off,the fears of us
..still living

[thats why ..we need to {eventually}...fear nothing]
ie fear no evil...that only sustains fears delusions
giving evil ..the means ..to interact with this reality

no more fear..they will simply disappear..!

think of them as much-like leeches...
only they get energy
not from our blood ..but our fears

it gets more worrying...these empty astral-shells
are able to be used by spirits ..[good/bad]
who have no soul-body themselves

...[its the bad spirits that feed our fears...
[so they can have ..an astral-body]..

no fear no astral shells sustained ..off our fears
for them to use

anyhow its true ..that this life ..isnt meant to be perfect
really bad events ...allow us ..to do better good

we really are here ..to learn
to chose between love or hate..

[god trusting ..in the end ..we chose love]

we must all be allowed to complain..
[but it dosnt change much]

in the end its only by doing*.. good..!
[not complaining of ..bad*]
that makes ..good real*

we should never accept bad as being in anyway good

others complaining of bad...
is the only way ...some learn*...what bad is

[like they say...an egsample ..
is worth a thousand words]

First and foremost, I wish to express my gratitude for all your responses...

pelican: Everyone is lucky. They just don't know yet. Religious book, i'm not saying everything that is stated in them are true.. but there are certain passages, that if you get them, will make you accept life. I have read many, and I always relate it to my personal experience.

Our brains... if i am not wrong... weighs only 2% of our body weight, consumed 20% of out energy. Scientist tries to proof this and that, but when it comes to believes, that can't prove nuts! Miracles to them are a disbelieve because, they think by having paper qualification, they know better.

Society, are so brain washed into believing what all this powerful people believe, that they don't even know what to believe in anymore. All they know, from what I see is the hurt and pain the have had(not everyone), and then they try to reason. They can't reason. Because our brains(the normal human) have been subjected since we can remember, to believe what others believe, our parents, friends, media, etc. As I said in a previous discussion, we have forgotten our instincts. Our instincts to protect, love, cherish, appreciate, forgive, help and understand.

Jinny <"Scientist tries to proof this and that, but when it comes to believes, that can't prove nuts! Miracles to them are a disbelieve because, they think by having paper qualification, they know better."

The problem with many people who have strong beliefs in a God or religion, is that they seem to think all 'scientists' don't believe in in the same things!
Why ever not?

Just because they have an enquiring mind and a university education doesn't mean they should all be non-believers does it?

We shouldn't forget that while many scientists may not believe in miracles as such (like me!), they do believe in serving mankind by continually trying to find new cures or preventatives for many diseases, or answers to many problems we may have in our world.

I think you are being too tough on the average human Jinny.
I see plenty of good in most people I come across, so I am sorry that you obviously don't meet many 'good' people in your life.

Dear nairbe: Thank you. Yes.. in Asia, they life a more simple life. but that is all changing. Stress is a pandemic, and it is spreading to the undeveloped countries as we read. It used to be simple, happy, life. Nowm they have to worry about government rulings. I think they will fight for what they believe. They have been, and still are. The riots there are not acceptable here in Aus coz there are more laws n fears in ppl here. All they know is: if I decide to challenge the law, the law I decided to break, everyone will question my actions and judge me.

Guess what? I am challenging the law. I want to see.. what arguement they come up with.. I will learn. I suffer, but it is only an emotional pain, and my brain can deal with that.

Yuyutsu: why improvement? don't u see the wrongs? should we just let the wrongs be wrongs, or try to change it into rights? the opposite? you are wrong. Sorry, i hv not read about your believes.

samsung: There is plenty wrong with complaining. Complaining does not help with improving anything. it is a waste of time and energy, and it doesn't help anyone except expressing their frustrations. What is the point of complaining? If there's a problem, or something you don't like, put an effort to try to change it. If you think you can't change it? sit at home, go out, wherever and do the things that brings you joy instead. :) isn't that better then complaining? Put a smile on somebody else's face?

I just wrote somewhere today because of the sky, it was dark on one side and bright on the other: "ying n yang, black n white, positive n negative, right n wrong, happy n sad, life n dealth... Always a choice."

579: Good on you! I have met few like you and they have great energy. What you heard is evolution taking action. Don't have to believe. Just keep doing what you are doing. If it is meant to happen, it will, if not, then not. We can't predict the future and shouldn't waste too much time wondering what is going to happen as we only life in the present.

UOG: What is it you fear? What happened in your life that caused you to fear. Fear is something you have created in your mind, over many, many years. Bad has always an explanation, always a reason. Humans are born perfect. There is always a reason: something happened to them that made them do bad things at one time or other in their lives. Does not make them forever bad. They learn, they realize why, most of them, the ones who are not to mentally damaged. And they change. from doing bad, they try hard to do good :)

suzeonline: Thank you ms for your contribution. How am I being tough on humans by sharing my thoughts here? This is virtual. In reality I change lives. I help people through their pain and suffering and make them want to be better, they want to get well. They want to be happy. I wish I have more time. I did not state anywhere about not believing. I said beliefs are very good for the mind. Also, I don't think i said that scientist are always wrong? I am just discussing to learn and understand more. So thank you and have a great day :) I am sure you will.

We have evolved. I wrote that those who do not accept technology, does not accept reality. How by not learning and understanding these wonderful devices that have made our lives so much more interesting and convenient will it help? Ignorance? I survive and grow with them, same with the energy I receive from the sun, water, my plants and life around me. All is help, helping me to help our planet.

If the world had more people who could go: "I struck the jackpot!!" when they withdraw cash from the ATM, hands in the air, jump up and down with a big smile, it would make some difference, a good difference :)