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Respect Do We need more?
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Another factor I think is that our culture has never revered age or experience, unfortunately. One saying that I think is particularly idiotic is the "Respect isn't given it's earned." Someone said it years ago and it sounded natty so a few nongs parrot it as if it's meaningful, while actually it's the antithesis of the notion of respect. All humans should be respected as a default position until there is a very good reason to withdraw it.
Otherwise, we have all these arrogant people expecting others to 'earn' their respect - but the criteria by which people are to do that remains a mystery peculiar to each individual doing the judging. It sets up an impossible scenario because everyone can set their own criteria and whether or not anybody is deemed worthy is a very hit and miss affair. Most just won't bother.
Another thing that seems peculiar to me is the way that the word itself 'respect' has lost meaning. Instead of being used in reference to regard or esteem between people, I often hear people say things like, "Sharks [or crocodiles] ... treat them with respect."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocnSGeBLW5s
Is the sentiment likely to be reciprocated - noop. I suspect they mean something like 'awe'. I'm wondering what meanings others derive from the idea of showing respect to creatures like sharks.
How can humans say they respect a shark when they don't in general respect each other? Very odd.
Anyway, a little respect can go a long way. Here's a classic:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrV0c9ETnWo&feature=related