Yabby

If only you were a bad boy you would have none of those problems, her husband would instead.

Whistler, you don’t need a female legislature to let you select a man that’s right for each occasion. Sometimes you just know it takes more than one. Right?

Lol Cornflower, in a past life I was that bad boy, but living in
the country, where everybody knows everybody, it led to all sorts
of problems. In fact I really liked some of the husbands :)

So best to be a good boy in the country, if you are going to live
in the same community.

Yabby

You must move to a country transport node where the tourist buses overnight. Take advantage of the cougar invasion. Not all of them can afford overseas romantic travel tours you know, their ex-spouses having lied through their teeth about their pre-marital assets.

yes Seeker
a Republic of Australia
should definitely have a men's legislature.
which with a women's legislature
should finally render obsolete
tiresome 1950s genre
derogatory male control freak jokes.

LOL Cornflower, in a way I can relate to what you are saying,
as when I was in my late teens, I lived in France for a time and
young American tourists on holidays, where their reputation was
not at stake, were huge fun indeed!

But I've long passed the stage of actively scheming to add some
notches to the belt, more just enjoying the peace and
tranquility of living in the sticks, with a whole lot of pets.
So I'm well off any tourist tracks here.

That does not mean that on odd occasions, when things fall
my way easily, that I don't grab the opportunity :)

Best just to focus on the fun and joy of life and not get
bogged down with all that commitment stuff