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Feminist is not a dirty word : Comments
By Monica Dux, published 26/9/2008Why are young women so reluctant to call themselves feminists?
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'Women are competing with men and they are doing it on men's terms.
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Ha, when a woman acts 'like a man' huh. These aren't 'men's' terms.
Women have these very same traits, it's the nature of power, aspiration and leadership that nurtures them.
When a man is being compassionate, cooperative and nurturing with his children, is he acting like a woman?
'The collective, co-operative and nurturing traits, which many hoped feminism would bring to the fore and help create a better and fairer society and improved conservation of our natural environment..'
Your categorisation of all supposedly 'negative' traits as male and all 'positive' traits as female, where the females only ever exhibit 'negative' traits because of a male construct is offensive really.
'Women are now trapped alongside men in the unrelenting pursuit of beating their competitors and increasing the bottom line.
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Whenever I see people being 'trapped' in gender roles, or 'trapped' into materialism a red flag appears. People who chase material wealth are not trapped. People who choose to be prime carer are not trapped. They might be exhibiting vanity or greed, or envy, or just care too much what others think of them, but they are not trapped. That's a cop out. It's what socialists use to dismiss capitalism, what feminists use to portray victimhood.
'undervalued and unappreciated '
I keep hearing this, but never see any evidence for it. It's a violin statement. It's all wrapped up in martyr statements such as 'a woman's work is never done'. It's counter-productive victim-speak.
SJF,
'Radical feminism, which emerged from the diverse women's movement of the 1960s, focused on patriarchy as the source of women's oppression.'
I see I'm not the only one who would consider you a radical feminist. I know you will probably dismiss this as a personal attack, but I wonder whether you agree with this characterisation. See I'm always looking to find what is a radical feminist, as every argument I come up with to other feminists on OLO I get the reply, yeah but only radical feminists believe that