Whitty,

I apologise if I didn't make myself clear. The writer of the article suggested that women were passive victims. I endeavoured to make a point that some women can be quite
aggressive in bed - indeed, not sensitive to their husband's needs at all.

"One woman’s description of her love life, sounded like she was directing traffic - another’ s husband would be in traction if she had her “evil” way" ...

My mother was born in 1914 and her comments related to some women's accounts of their husband's foreplay: “Ow about it, luv?”. Men in general are better informed now. I recall a very old lady telling me that her husband believed that if a woman enjoyed sex, she was no better than a whore.

No woman should, or would disparage a man for impotency. Hopefully, any woman would be very sensitive to this situation.