OZGIRL,
I must admit with the experience I have had with survivors of these "evil monsters" I have believed the best punishment for them would be to be staked out near Mt Isa 30 meters from the highway, and left there. Come back in 6 months and collect what bones were still present, and bury them.

However if there is a way to ensure that one of these unmentionables could become a productive member of society then I say not only let them produce but make them produce something. I don't mind how this is achieved, castration, forced medication, whatever works. If nothing can be found that actually works, default to the Mt Isa solution.

Shonga hi,

So sorry to read of your experience at that hands of these evil monsters as you so rightly call them.
My veiws on this subject are so intense that I almost didnt post for fear of alienating myself with my extreme veiws.

I acknowledge that victims of said abuse then go on to abuse, but even so as human beings we KNOW what is right and wrong and yet they do it anyway?

I believe that we are not protecting our children.To allow them out of jail ,released back into communities is unfathomable to me.

Who is protecting the children? Who is recognising their rights to live and play in a safe enviroment.They go to the local playground and have to be fearful of these predators?
These same ones that are released from jail.
At the very least they should be castrated,sugically and put to work as you say,they lost their right to choose when they choose to destroy the life of an innocent child.
The Mt Isa option is very good, I like it.

I am a mother of a sexually abused child and i dont know what to do. I feel lost and alone. it will be six years this month that she disclosed but as much as she has recieved help i am.... well i dont know what i am. she is also very obese and i am struggling to find a way to help her. My daugher used food for comfort and now she is very over weight. We did all the right things when we found out what my husbands father did we took her to counciling and doctors and hospital and did what we thought was right but the law works against victims. how can a 4 year old make up such discusting stories. what kills me is she told the police and they could only question him and when he dinied it he was set free yet we have a life sentance for no reason at all.

My daughter was abused by my husbands father, he was found guilty of abusing 3 grandchildren, he went to prison. He is now out and my husband keeps in contact wit him. My daughter chooses not to, and i support her in that decision, we have been through so much heartache, but it doesnt stop, my husband looks/acts just like his father, i try to seperate them, but am finding it so hard to. I have received counselling but it does not help, i get very low, to the point of desperation of all the hurt that has been caused, i have tried to fight the feeling of wanting to take my kids and run away from my husband, how do i get past this? Will it ever get any better, its been 4 years now, i feel empty, so hurt and out of love totally with my husband!

My daughter was abused by my husbands father, he was found guilty of abusing 3 grandchildren, he went to prison. He is now out and my husband keeps in contact with him. My daughter chooses not to, and i support her in that decision, we have been through so much heartache, but it doesnt stop, my husband looks/acts just like his father, i try to seperate them, but am finding it so hard to. I have received counselling but it does not help, i get very low, to the point of desperation of all the hurt that has been caused, i have tried to fight the feeling of wanting to take my kids and run away from my husband, how do i get past this? Will it ever get any better, its been 4 years now, i feel empty, so hurt and out of love totally with my husband!

Dear Sammi19: I am so sorry for your situation - personally if my husband was still in contact with his father - my children's abuser, I would take my kids and run. How could you now respect your husband? No wonder you feel numb. The very man you need to know wil protect your children is cavorting with the devil. He obviously does not understand the lioness in us women trying to protect our children and the bitter, disempowering, guilt ridden loathing we feel when we realise that we didn't. (not that it is our fault - sex offenders are sneaky, vile sewer rats).

My mother spent years blaming herself for my brother's rape by her vile boyfriend.

Make your stand. For your children's sake.