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The right to choose the right to choose : Comments
By Natasha Stott Despoja, published 29/9/2005Natasha Stott Despoja argues pregnancy counsellors who won't refer for terminations should advertise the fact.
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"...I didn't think that had to be spelled out sorry."
It didn't, you're missing the point. That's not responsibility, it's an option to accept an obligation. The man could choose to avoid all responsibility simply by deciding that he didn't want the child, but the woman is always accountable, potentially to an extensive degree.
"it is in the context of saving a human life ,and being help responsible"
No it's not, and you haven't put forth anything to demonstrate this. The woman has no responsibility to the man, only to take care of the situation. Forcing her to be pregnant against her will is not holding her responsible for that, because the situation can be dealt with by *not* forcing her.
"if there isn't going to be an 'adequate' amount then don't put yourself in that situation. "
Seeing as you're the one trying to paint this as the fair solution, you really undermine your case by saying this.
"Sorry please expand."
A child requires a lot more to raise than a puppy, that support has to come from somewhere: you can't just lump more "responsibility" upon the mother.
"Isn't sophisticated social interaction artificial in some respect..."
The problem isn't the artificiality, it is the cannot...here part. There can't *be* equality; there are too many conflicts. Whether or not it is correct to make the community liable for certain actions of individuals is an issue that is open to reasonable differences, thus a specific stand on it isn't a good indicator of openmindedness. But if you're not willing to accept that and get on with the propriety of allowing abortion, then perhaps it is a good test to determine whether the debate should continue.