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By Bernie Matthews, published 20/12/2004Bernie Matthews discusses the state of the Queensland prison system
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“Years of incarceration have made me a successful failure.”
“tagged, bagged and neatly compartmentalised as a convicted felon whose views and observations are irrelevant or inconsequential”
Maybe taking responsibility for your own actions at an earlier age would have enabled you to avoid incarceration and the stigma which is attached and which limited your right to free movement within society.
Expecting ones views to “be heard and taken as serious” (not irrelevant nor inconsequential) is something we all have to “Earn”.
It is something which is not denied you because of your poor “career choices” but because – unless you have some “credibility” on talking about anything, the public tend to consider yours or anyone elses “view” as “unproven” and thus suspect and un-supported.
In summary –
Incarceration protects society from those who choose not to exercise responsibility for their actions.
There is not “right to be heard” – there is only a “right to quiet enjoyment”
Having managed to live for over 5 decades without my “right to quiet enjoyment” being curtailed by any term of imprisonment, my view to how “to do it” may well be considered as better than yours.
If you want to turn failure into success – it all starts with taking responsibility for yourself and for every action you take. It also requires you to accept yourself as you are and not as “society” chooses to label you. Because society labels us all, crudely and usually wrongly – it is not the label we are given that matters – it is the “label” we give ourself.
The “Self Applied Label” can being one of “excuse and blame the world” or it can be one of “self responsibility and respect for others”.– inside prison it is easy to “excuse and blame”. Outside of prison the only thing which works is “self responsibility and respect for others”
Footnote
My partner works as an educator in the prison system of another state.
She observes after almost a decade of experience -
The only prisoners who “accept responsibility” for being in prison and show any "real" remorse for the crimes which brought them to prison are the culpable drivers.