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Violence is not OK
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«so if a bloke hits his wife a few times to make her do what he wants but hits her with love then he's not being violent.»
Is this hypothetical, or can you actually simultaneously hit your wife to make her do what you want AND with love?
I can conceive of VERY RARE situations where this may be the case, such as when what you want her to do is only for her own good. It happened to me just once in my life, many decades ago, when I have hit someone (not my wife) with love in order to make them do something for their own good, I felt it was God's calling to hit him and I had absolutely no violence in my heart. He did hit me back though and I accepted that lovingly too. We ended up embracing and crying together.
BUT PLEASE BE CAREFUL. For the vast majority of men, never will there be a time, even once, when hitting their wife can truly be done with love and non-violence.
«Wonder how it would stand up in court?»
Had you been in such an unusual situation, what courts do and say would be your least concern. Chances however are that courts would not become aware of this because your wife would actually thank you for it rather than complain, such is the power of love!